For couple years we have been doing letters to Baby Jesus instead of Santa.
The boys were hard at work with their letters last night. I posted this photo on social media yesterday and have gotten many requests for a copy of the letter. I am reposting the original post where I give the details and links to print out your own letter.
We have the boys fill out their letters and put them in their empty shoes by the door on the eve of St. Nicholas Day. They wake up to find their letters gone and treats instead. One St. Nick’s day we didn’t get our letters done so we left a little note telling St. Nick thanks for the treats and to please take these letters to Baby Jesus with him.
Also, there is no need to tie this into St. Nicholas Day. These letters can be filled out any time during Advent. You could stick them in Jesus’ stocking (if He has one) or make a little gift box for Jesus where you place the letters inside. Or just place them under the tree or on the mantle to be found missing in the morning. Do as much or as little as fits your family right now. šĀ Either way, enjoy!
Happy feast day of St. Nicholas! My Instagram is overflowing with lovely photos of Catholic homes displaying children’s shoes filled with treats. My home? Not so much. It seems I am always a day late and dollar short and in our home St. Nicholas works in a delayed time zone and we put out our shoes the NIGHT of his feast day because Mama Elf was not quite ready. Truth be told, we are trying out a new Advent tradition today and I wanted it to coincide with the feast of St. Nicholas so our shoes will go out tonight.
A few years back, I asked some fellow Catholic moms how they keep Christ in Christmas. A friend shared with me how she has her kids write letters to Baby Jesus instead of Santa. She wrote:
An old Catholic custom is the writing of “Christmas Letters” by the children. These letters, addressed to the Child Jesus (NOT Santa Claus) are written or dictated by the little ones some time before Christmas. They contain their wishes concerning Christmas presents, petitions for various intentions, and a promise of sincere effort to please Our Lord in preparation for Christmas. When they go to bed, the children put their letters on the windowsill, from where “angels” take them during the night to bring them to the Child Jesus in heaven.
This charming custom helps the parents to impress on the minds of their little ones the importance of a sincere spiritual preparation and at the same time great confidence in God who is concerned with our temporal and spiritual needs. Parents who favor this custom will often be deeply touched when they discover that some of their children put more stress on spiritual graces than on material gifts even on an occasion like this. It can also alert parents to the need for more guidance and direction toward this goal. (From LD of CA)
I loved that idea and every year I said, “This year we will do the same!” I think I’ve since had two more kids but still have not tried it. But today is the day!
The boys still believe in Santa and they wanted to write their wish lists but I liked the idea of a letter to Baby Jesus so I incorporated the two. I put together a simple form letter that I could print off and give everyone to fill out. Here is what it looked like. (The link for the PDF is below. There is also a second version with no reference to Santa.)
They spent time today thinking about what they would do as a gift to Baby Jesus.
John-Paul’s gift was to set the table without complaining. (I’m looking forward to that one.) š
They chose a person they would especially pray for during Advent.
Andrew chose his Uncle Mick stationed in Afghanistan.
Lastly, they wrote what gifts they would like Santa to bring them on Christmas morning when we have Jesus’ birthday party (complete with cake. ;-))
Matthew has his heart set on Ezra from Star Wars Rebels.
When they were done, they folded up their letters and put them in their shoes for St. Nicholas to deliver to Baby Jesus. Tomorrow morning they will find their letters gone and their treats instead.
If you’d like to print of a copy, here is the Letter to Baby Jesus. Also, I made a second version for those who don’t want the Santa aspect. It can be found here. Enjoy. š
UPDATE: When I posted this seven years ago, I had of house of littles. Now I have a house of preteens and teenagers.
However, we still love the idea of writing a letter to Baby Jesus, so I made an updated teen/adult version. You still choose some spiritual (or corporal) act you’ll offer to Jesus. You choose someone to pray for during Advent and instead of asking for a wrapped gift, you can write down what you are hoping to receive from Jesus this Christmas season. (ie. Peace in your heart, the ability to forgive someone who has hurt you, healing [physical or mental], etc.) You can download a PDF of the letter here.
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what an absolutely wonderful tradition! I LOVE it!, Because you were so gracious in sharing it, we too shall start this tradition. There are so many things about it that I am loving and embracing that I don’t know where to start. We have never done the letter to Santa thing and I think its simply because I have never wanted to see them to start an “endless” list of requests which teaches them the wrong thing (not that I’m against it at all, just not for my kids). I’m hoping this will open their minds and their hearts just as much as their dreams and desires š
thank you again and Merry Christmas to you and your family.
Thank you, Lorena. I hope you were able to use it. Merry Christmas and Happy New Year to your family! š
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