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31 Days of Gratitude (Day 13): Throwback Thursday – Leaving the Bubble and Seeing God’s Beauty in the Mess

The #write31days challenge continues. It’s Day 13 of my 31 Days of Gratitude 2016. In a new tradition, I’ll be having Throwback Thursdays and reposting past posts. Here is one I originally posted in October two years ago.

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Last weekend we spent the day at a friend’s ranch/farm, which was about an hour out of town, for a birthday party. I have to admit that when Brian and I get invitations from friends our first response is – can we get out of it? Well, maybe it’s not that bad but these days we are more prone to stay home than to venture out.

This used to be the little schoolhouse.

However, lately I have been feeling like we need to get out of our little “bubble’ more often and spend time with other families. And not just families that believe exactly the way we do, but those who differ in their faith. We all share a common love for our kids and are trying to raise them within a moral compass but we don’t necessarily see eye to eye on certain things. Finding common ground and learning to be respectful of our differences, without necessarily changing our own beliefs, is not always easy. However, it is essential to learn how to interact and live peacefully amongst our neighbors (or even family members.)

Cotton candy and popcorn. What more could you ask for?

In the end, we had a great time. The party was so fun and the kids absolutely loved all the carnival games and bouncy house and looking at all the different farm animals. (Although John-Paul inherited his mother’s dislike of certain smells and did not want to stand near the “stinky cows.”) I loved talking to the other moms and Brian was in awe over the little ranch chapel that our friend’s mom built. He already has plans to remodel our current outdoor shed into something similar. šŸ˜‰

I also thought it was funny that this was my second time in one week to spend time at a farm. As I mentioned earlier, I am a city girl and not used to being around horses and cattle and other live stock. I’m not keen on all the flies everywhere but something about this ranch just took my breath away. You could see the hard work and dedication that was involved in maintaining it. Although it looked different from scenes of the ocean or the forests, there was an undeniable beauty in the land. At one point I wandered around with my camera and took a few shots. As my feet kicked up the dirt and the sun beat down on my back, there was a sense of God’s presence in the simple beauty to be found. A beauty I had not appreciated before.

 

My attitude reminded me of a stranger coming into our home and hearing the boys yelling and playing, seeing the Legos and the toys on the floor, seeing the crayon marks on the walls, stains in the carpet and the dishes in the sink and thinking, “How can they live in all this noise? How can they continually keep cleaning up after all these kids? I’d hate it.” But if they looked deeper they’d see that beyond the noise and the mess, there are giggles and laughter. There are sweet kisses and tight hugs. There are acts of kindness and reflections of God’s love. Sometimes you just have to dig a little deeper to see the beauty in the mess.

 

Being at the ranch today not only opened my eyes to the simple beauty in front of me but opened my heart to welcoming in other people and enjoy their companionship. Those are not things I would have learned had I just stayed home. For that, I am very grateful.

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31 Days of Gratitude (Day 12): The Fruits of the Spirit

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It’s Day 12 of the #write31days challenge. My topic is 31 Days of Gratitude. You can see my previous Gratitude posts here.

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Now for today’s post…

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Today was my turn to write the daily devotional for Blessed Is She. Here is a snippet:

Saint Paul is not one to mince words. He just lays out the fact that the ā€œworks of the fleshā€ will keep us away from the Kingdom of Godā€”immorality, impurity, hatred, jealousy, acts of selfishness, etc. There was a time in my life when I was not living as I ought and was giving into my passions and desires. When I finally hit bottom, I called out to God. I distinctly remember kneeling at the foot of my bed sobbing because I hated what I had become and wanted nothing more than to leave that old life behind and embrace a new life in Christ.

The next day I woke up feeling a shift within me but I also realized that living a life of Christ was more than just avoiding these sins. Saint Paul emphasized that now that we live in the Spirit, we also follow the Spirit. We become a new person that embodies the fruits of the Spiritā€”love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, generosity, faithfulness, gentleness and self-control. That is a tall order! I donā€™t know about you, but all these fruits do not come naturally to me.

Read the rest of the devotion here.

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It’s funny that when I was writing this devotion, I received in the mail this gorgeous hand painted fruits of the Holy Spirit canvas from Welcome Bee.com. I ordered it because I wanted to have a physical reminder of the fruits that should be present in my life as a Christian. Some of these fruits come easier to me (like kindness) but others are a lot tougher for me (I’m looking at you, patience!) I hung this up in my kitchen to remind me during the toil of the day that my actions and attitude should reflect the Spirit of God.

So today I am grateful for the the opportunities to grow in virtue, even if I don’t particularly like working on things like patience!

I am also thankful for the artists at Welcome Bee for sharing their talent and promoting the faith with it. šŸ™‚

What are you grateful for today?

 

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31 Days of Gratitude (Day 11): Looking in the Mirror – Flaws vs Beauty of the Soul

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It’s Day 11 of the #write31days challenge. My topic is 31 Days of Gratitude. You can see my previous Gratitude posts here.

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This morning I saw a Dove commercial on Facebook and I can’t get it out of my head. It is one from their “real beauty” campaigns. In the video, they show a man a series of photos that contain faces of models. As they look at the photo and describe the model before them, their heart rate is being measured. Towards the end of the photos they are shown women in their lives – a wife, a mother, a daughter, a sister, etc. As the men describe the beauty of their loved ones their heart rate rose and at times their voices would quiver with emotion. The point of the commercial was to help women develop a positive relationship with the way they look.

I think this commercial stuck in my head because this weekend Brian and I celebrated the 17th anniversary of the day he proposed to me. I thought about how young and in love we were and how just being near him sent my heart racing. I thought about how he would gaze at me and get this “look” that told me that he loved me as much as I loved him.

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Our wedding photographer caught a glimpse of that look on our wedding day. I love the way Brian is looking down at me and I remember seeing all his emotions there in his eyes.

Fast forward almost seventeen years and we’ve been through some amazing times and some rough times. We’ve survived the normal trials of caring for babies and toddlers with itsĀ messy days and sleepless nights. We’ve survived family trials, miscarriages, cancer and the death of a loved one. It would have been easy to fall away from each other if not for the grace of God! We are still crazy in love with each other but the years have taken their physical toll. We’ve aged.

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I look in the mirror and for the most part I think, yeah, that’s me and I’m okay with it. Ā But sometimes I look in the mirror and all I can see are the tired eyes, wrinkling skin, doubleĀ chin and plus size figure. I wonder, “How in the world does my husband still find me attractive?” Yet, despite the flaws and aging, I’ll still see “that look” when he holds me close or when he steals a kiss in the kitchen or when he reaches for my hand when we are out in public. Because of his love for me, he is able to see something in me that I sometimes can’t see in myself.

However, this goes beyond something we experienceĀ with our husband. I see it in my children’s eyes when they hug me, kiss me or tell me that “I’m the best mom eber!” I see it in the loving look of a sister or a friend who gives me a hug when they see me and are eager to catch up and talk.

I see the same thing when I look at my friends. When I think of their various qualities, the things that come to mind are these: she can light up the room with her smile, she would drop everything to help a friend in need, she makes me laugh so hard I cry, she listens to you like you are the only one in the room or she is smart and strong and makes me feel like I am capable of the same.

Despite their various shapes, sizes, ages and occupations, I don’t give much thought to those things. It’s their qualities, their strengths and their kindness that makes me love them.Ā  Our friendship allows their beauty to shine brighter in my eyes.

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So today, if you are feeling less than beautiful, stop for a moment and see yourself through the eyes of those who love you – a spouse, a child, a parent, a sibling, a best friend. They see beauty in you. They see someone they enjoy being with and are blessed to have in their lives. Be thankful that God made you uniquely your own person. Be thankful for the qualities that bring beauty to your soul and to the world around you.

Today I am grateful for that reminder.

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Book Reviews for 2016 – Part 3: July, Aug & Sept

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Itā€™s Day 10 of the #write31days challenge. My topic is 31 Days of Gratitude. You can see my previous Gratitude posts here.

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For today’s post I am grateful for the moments when I have some quiet time to read. I am grateful for the authors that share their talent by writing absorbing novels. I am grateful for the invention of audio books that allows me to listen while I work. Lastly, I am grateful for reaching a personal goal.

One of my goals for 2016 was to watch less TV and read more. I pledged on Goodreads to read 12 books in 2016 but my reading has been going so well I hoped to double that number by the end of summer. I’m happy to say that I did it! I have read 27 books so far.

Next, I need to work on finishing the Modern Mrs. Darcy Reading Challenge. I still have these four categories left to fill by the end of the year:

  • A book you can finish in one day. (No idea??)
  • A book you should have read in school. (I’m thinking Cannery Row? Maybe Of Mice and Men?)
  • A book published before you were born. (I’m thinking A Tree Grows in Brooklyn or I could chose something I’ve read many times like Pride and Prejudice.) šŸ˜‰
  • A book you own but have never read. (Hmm… I’ll have to look over my bookshelf. There are a number that could fit this category.)

If you have any recommendations, let me know. In the meantime, I posted mini-reviews for my June reading here.

These are the books I read over July, August and September.

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East of Eden

  • Author: John Steinbeck
  • Length: 640 pages
  • Publisher: Penguin Classics; Reissue edition (October 1, 1992); Original Publication (1952)

Amazon Summary:

In his journal, Nobel Prize winner John Steinbeck called East of Eden “the first book,” and indeed it has the primordial power and simplicity of myth. Set in the rich farmland of California’s Salinas Valley, this sprawling and often brutal novel follows the intertwined destinies of two familiesā€”the Trasks and the Hamiltonsā€”whose generations helplessly reenact the fall of Adam and Eve and the poisonous rivalry of Cain and Abel.

The masterpiece of Steinbeckā€™s later years, East of Eden is a work in which Steinbeck created his most mesmerizing characters and explored his most enduring themes: the mystery of identity, the inexplicability of love, and the murderous consequences of love’s absence. Adapted for the 1955 film directed by Elia Kazan introducing James Dean and read by thousands as the book that brought Oprahā€™s Book Club back, East of Eden has remained vitally present in American culture for over half a century.

My Thoughts:

I have seen movies of John Steinbeck’s works but I have never actually read one of his books. The fact that I live on the Central Coast of CA, where his stories take place, makes it is even more fitting that I correct this error. So for the Modern Mrs. Darcy Reading Challenge, I chose this for the “a book that was banned at some point” category.

The length of East of Eden seemed really daunting at first and there were a few chapters that I thought could have been edited down a bit, but I have to admit the story pulled me in and I couldn’t put it down. I found myself re-readng lines and thinking, “Wow, he really has an insight into human emotion,” or “I love the way Steinbeck painted a picture in my head with his words.”

With that said, the topic material of East of Eden is not easy. It can actually be depressing to witness such sadistic behavior in characters like Kathy. In the end, though I was happy I read it and rate it 4 out of 5 stars. (I didn’t give five stars simply for the chapters that really dragged.) I would love to read another Steinbeck novel and am thinking Cannery Row or Of Mice and Men. Any preference or suggestions?

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The Summer Before the War

  • Author: Helen Simonson
  • Length: 496 pages
  • Publisher: Random House (March 22, 2016)

Amazon Summary:

East Sussex, 1914. It is the end of Englandā€™s brief Edwardian summer, and everyone agrees that the weather has never been so beautiful. Hugh Grange, down from his medical studies, is visiting his Aunt Agatha, who lives with her husband in the small, idyllic coastal town of Rye. Agathaā€™s husband works in the Foreign Office, and she is certain he will ensure that the recent saber rattling over the Balkans wonā€™t come to anything. And Agatha has more immediate concerns; she has just risked her carefully built reputation by pushing for the appointment of a woman to replace the Latin master.

When Beatrice Nash arrives with one trunk and several large crates of books, it is clear she is significantly more freethinkingā€”and attractiveā€”than anyone believes a Latin teacher should be. For her part, mourning the death of her beloved father, who has left her penniless, Beatrice simply wants to be left alone to pursue her teaching and writing.

But just as Beatrice comes alive to the beauty of the Sussex landscape and the colorful characters who populate Rye, the perfect summer is about to end. For despite Agathaā€™s reassurances, the unimaginable is coming. Soon the limits of progress, and the old ways, will be tested as this small Sussex town and its inhabitants go to war.

My Thoughts:

I already had two war time books on my summer list and was reluctant to add a third but then I found out that Tiffany and Cristina were hosting the Late Summer Book Club and this was the book that was voted as the fave and it was said to have a Downton Abbey feel. Well, I had to be a part of that so it was happily added. Plus,Ā I also wanted to count it towards the Modern Mrs. Darcy Reading Challenge. I chose this for the “a book published this year” category.

As I was reading the book, some of the others in the reading club said that the story was too slow and a little boring. I honestly did not feel bored. It definitely was not a “grab you by the throat” book. It was more like a stroll in the park book – easy going and relaxing. I enjoyed the pace and if you keep going, by the third part of the book the action picks up and your emotions are on a roller coaster. By the end of the story, I was crying, both sad and happy tears. I was pleased that I added the book to my list. I give it 3.5 stars out of 5.

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Persuasion by Jane Austen

  • Author: Jane Austen
  • Length: 150 pages
  • Publisher: CreateSpace Independent Publishing Platform

Amazon Summary:

First published in 1818, Persuasion was Jane Austen’s last work. Its mellow character and autumnal tone have long made it a favorite with Austen readers. Set in Somersetshire and Bath, the novel revolves around the lives and love affair of Sir Walter Elliot, his daughters Elizabeth, Anne, and Mary, and various in-laws, friends, suitors, and other characters, In Anne Elliot, the author created perhaps her sweetest, most appealing heroine.

At the center of the novel is Anne’s thwarted romance with Captain Frederick Wentworth, a navy man Anne met and fell in love with when she was 19. At the time, Wentworth was deemed an unsuitable match and Anne was forced to break off the relationship. Eight years later, however, they meet again. By this time Captain Wentworth has made his fortune in the navy and is an attractive “catch.” However, Anne is now uncertain about his feelings for her. But after various twists and turns of fortune, the novel ends on a happy note.

In Persuasion, as in such novels as Sense and Sensibility, Pride and Prejudice, and Emma, Austen limned the plight of young women who could escape the constraints of family life only by marrying, and suggest the foolishness of women who believed they were free and not dependent on the financial and social resources of men. At the same time, Persuasion offers an ironic and subtle paean to the true love that enables one woman to rise above straitened economic circumstances and the stifling social conventions that restricted women to narrowly circumscribed lives in the common sitting room.
Sure to appeal to admirers of Jane Austen, Persuasion will delight any reader with its finely drawn characters, gentle satire, and charming re-creation of the genteel world of the 19th-century English countryside.

My Thoughts:

Although I didn’t quite finish all the books on my Summer Reading List, I decided to end the summer with an old favorite, Persuasion. I also wanted to count it towards the Modern Mrs. Darcy Reading Challenge. I chose this for the “a book you’ve already read at least once” category.

I don’t think I really need to review it since I’m assuming most readers of my blog are already fans of Jane Austen. I will admit that Persuasion is my favorite of Austen’s stories and the letter reading scene still makes me swoon. I’m curious, what is your favorite Jane Austen novel?

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The Light Between Oceans by ML Stedman

  • Author:Ā ML Stedman
  • Length: 352 pages
  • Publisher: Scribner; Media Tie-In edition (August 23, 2016)

Amazon Summary:

After four harrowing years on the Western Front, Tom Sherbourne returns to Australia and takes a job as the lighthouse keeper on Janus Rock, nearly half a dayā€™s journey from the coast. To this isolated island, where the supply boat comes once a season, Tom brings a young, bold, and loving wife, Isabel. Years later, after two miscarriages and one stillbirth, the grieving Isabel hears a babyā€™s cries on the wind. A boat has washed up onshore carrying a dead man and a living baby.

Tom, who keeps meticulous records and whose moral principles have withstood a horrific war, wants to report the man and infant immediately. But Isabel insists the baby is a ā€œgift from God,ā€ and against Tomā€™s judgment, they claim her as their own and name her Lucy. When she is two, Tom and Isabel return to the mainland and are reminded that there are other people in the world. Their choice has devastated one of them.

My Thoughts:

When I saw the trailer for this movie, I moved the last 3 books on my Summer Reading List to my Fall Reading List. I really wanted to read the book before I watched the movie since a movie can only fit so much into two hours. There are are always nuances and story lines that cannot be delved into the same way words on a page can. Like Summer Before the War, this book started with a slow burn. Since I knew the story line and the arch problem of the story already, I was constantly waiting for it to happen. When it did, it was heartbreaking.

My heart ached for Isabel and the pain she was feeling with the loss of her three babies. The arrival of little Lucy in the boat with her dead father, did seem like a miracle from God. However, as much I wanted her to keep the baby I knew it was not as simple as a child’s game of Finder’s Keepers. I was truly torn between how I wanted the story to end and how it “should” end. I must say that it was tragic to the last. I had a glimmer of hope for one of the characters but even that was taken away but I don’t regret reading it at all. Emotional drama in a book is always somehow cathartic. However, if you are expecting a Hallmark ending, look elsewhere. I rate this 4 out of 5 stars.

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Big, Little Lies by Liane Moriarty

  • Author:Ā Liane Moriarty
  • Length: 512 pages
  • Publisher: Berkley; Reprint edition (August 11, 2015)

Amazon Summary:

Madeline is a force to be reckoned with. Sheā€™s funny and biting, passionate, she remembers everything and forgives no one. Her ex-husband and his yogi new wife have moved into her beloved beachside community, and their daughter is in the same kindergarten class as Madelineā€™s youngest (how is this possible?). And to top it all off,Ā Madelineā€™s teenage daughter seems to be choosing Madelineā€™s ex-husband over her. (How. Is. This. Possible?).

Celeste is the kind of beautiful woman who makes the world stop and stare. While she may seem a bit flustered at times, who wouldnā€™t be, with those rambunctious twin boys? Now that the boys are starting school, Celeste and her husband look set to become the king and queen of the school parent body. But royalty often comes at a price, and Celeste is grappling with how much more she is willing to pay.

New to town, single mom Jane is so young that another mother mistakes her for the nanny. Jane is sad beyond her years and harbors secret doubts about her son. But why? While Madeline and Celeste soon take Jane under their wing, none of them realizes how the arrival of Jane and her inscrutable little boy will affect them all.

Big Little Lies is a brilliant take on ex-husbands and second wives, mothers and daughters, schoolyard scandal, and the dangerous little lies we tell ourselves just to survive.

My Thoughts:

I first heard about this book from an article in our local paper. HBO is doing a series based on the book and part of the show was filmed here on the Monterey Peninsula. I read the free sample on Amazon and was intrigued. Being my first Liane Moriarty book, I was not familiar with the author but now I know why she is a favorite. The story completely sucked me in and I was trying to read a page at every free moment. I eventually got the audio version on Audible so I could keep listening as I was driving around town running errands.

Based on three main characters, the story follows their lives after we learn that someone died at a school event with all the parents present. Facts are revealed, story lines intertwine and secrets are slowly revealed. The writing was excellent and it had me completely absorbed and wanting to know how the story would end. At the key point of the story, I was making dinner with my headphones on as the kids were playing outside. Brian came into the kitchen as I audibly gasped. He just smiled and teased me about how into a book I get. šŸ˜‰

The story is definitely written from a modern worldview and there are adult situations and some language but nothing too graphic. I really enjoyed the book and picked up another Moriarty book (What Alice Forgot) to read in Fall. I rate the book 5 out of 5.

What was your favorite book over the summer?

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31 Days of Gratitude (Day 9): Quote of the Day

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It’s Day 9 of the #write31days challenge. My topic is 31 Days of Gratitude. You can see my previous Gratitude posts here.

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Since Sundays are for worshiping God and spending time with family, I’ll just be posting a quote. šŸ™‚

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