Revolution of Love

Revolution of Love

Do small things with great love.

7 Quick Takes – (1/13/12): Resolutions & Downton Edition

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Hosted by Jen at Conversion Diary.

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I’ve been reading a lot on other blogs about resolutions. I hate resolutions because I’ll do well for a day or two then go right back to where I started. Instead, I have a couple of work-in-process projects. I’ve been working on two areas specifically last year. One was to get my house more organized. For those who know me or have been reading my blog, you also know that my three sisters are neat and organized and I’m the one most likely to appears on “Hoarders: Buried Alive.” Okay, maybe I’m not that bad but I could appear on the show “My Desk Is Covered with So Much Junk I Can’t See My Computer Monitor” as seen here. That is why I started Operation Clean & Organize. I haven’t done much since autumn with all the holiday busyness but things have settled down now and I can refocus.

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The second work-in-progress is to eat healthier and move more. (Do you ever watch Good Luck Charlie on Disney? As the overweight Bob Duncan was told – “Less bacon and more shakin!”) I already joined Weight Watchers and I’ve lost the baby weight but, again, once the holidays came everything stalled. I stopped keeping track. I kept what I lost off but I haven’t made any progress on the still long road ahead. So that, too, must be refocused.

UPDATE: For info on Bob Duncan’s weight loss, read this post.

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The last two are more mini-goals than projects. And they are more “fun.” The first – don’t be afraid to try some “feminine touches” in how I dress. When I was younger my favorite colors were navy blue, army green and burgundy. I wore either converse of doc martins. However, as I’ve gotten older, I have finally let go of that more “tomboy” mentality. I still hate wearing dresses or skirts and run from any shoe that has a heel more than Ā½ an inch but I can now say my favorite colors are red, orange and yellow – bright and happy colors. I like wearing pink and buying things that are less boyish and more cute. I think I have also been influenced by Betty Beguiles and have learned to better embrace the feminine side of myself. For example, when I see my sisters wearing pretty flowers in their hair or a really pretty accessory I think to myself – that looks great on them but I couldn’t wear it. Well, Bobbi, why not? So I experimented with little things. For Christmas I wore a flower clip in my hair. I also love headbands so I wore this crocheted one I found that had a pretty crocheted flower on it.

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I liked it and no one laughed at me. (Do we ever get over those negative junior high feelings that sometimes creep up on us?) And who knows, in the future I may even be blogging about the day I wore one of those cute dresses I pinned on Pinterest. After all, I do believe in miracles.


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The other mini-goal is to watch a little less TV. Having cable TV and a DVR, I can pretty much record whatever I want and just watch it later, especially when I am up with the baby. However, it has gotten a bit out of hand. I have had to delete some shows that have just become time wasters. (Sorry, Mom, if I can’t discuss the latest person voted off Biggest Loser or why I voted for so-and-so on American Idol.) I will still watch favorites with Brian in the evening and I will certainly still obsess over Downton Abbey (See, Mom, we can still discuss how much we can’t stand Vera Bates and how we long for Mary and Matthew to finally get together.) but paring down on TV in general will give me more time to read a few of those books I wanted to get into and read some of the mom blogs I’ve wanted to follow.

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Speaking of reading more, I have already started reading more on my new Kindle Fire. Yes, as I mentioned in last week’s quick takes, I finally decided to use my Christmas money to buy one and I don’t regret it! I love my iphone but reading on the kindle is so much easier. Plus, I can also read my magazines (did you see that the National Catholic Register is available on the Kindle?) and my Google Reader is a lot easier than on my phone. It is perfect for the evenings when I am trying to get the baby to sleep and have extra time to myself.

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And speaking of mom blogs, I first came across By Sun and Candlelight when I was reading a post about Downton Abbey. (Great comments in the com box. btw!) I started browsing around and I am really enjoying Dawn’s posts. You should check it out.

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Lastly, Dawn (from above) also mentioned that she got the book The World of Downton Abbey for her birthday. I browsed through the pages they had on Amazon and it looks so pretty and informative. It’s the kind of book a Downton geek would love. (It is available on Kindle but a book like that, you have to hold it in your hands and feel the paper.)

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And I do happen to have a few dollars of my Christmas money left…and it is burning a hole in my pocket…and who wants to bet that for next week’s {pretty, happy, funny, real} you are going to see a photo of that book sitting on my desk. I’m just saying… šŸ˜‰

LOL! Have a great weekend!
xoxo,
b.


Prayer Before Logging onto the Internet

I was getting ready to post the pics for {pretty, happy, funny, real} and I noticed a trackback link from someone with a picture of the Carmel Mission (my parish). I clicked it and discovered the JOYfilled Family Blog. I haven’t had a chance to read the posts yet but I love the prayer that is posted on the site. I’ll be saying this every morn. šŸ™‚
A Prayer Before Logging onto the Internet
Almighty and eternal God,
who created us in Thy image
and bade us to seek after all that is
good, true and beautiful,
especially in the divine person
of Thy Only-begotten Son,
our Lord Jesus Christ,
grant, we beseech Thee,
that, through the intercession of Saint Isidore,
Bishop and Doctor,
during our journeys through the internet
we will direct our hands and eyes
only to that which is pleasing to Thee
and treat with charity and patience
all those souls whom we encounter.
Through Christ our Lord. Amen.
~Father Z


From the Shower of Roses Blog: A Virtual Baby Shower for Charlotte

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If you are reading this blog then I am sure that you, like me, are familiar with having online friends that you care about even though you have never met in person. We can’t help but share in their joys and cry over their sorrows. Jessica over at Shower of Roses Blog wanted to do something special for the pregnancy of Charlotte of Waltzing Matilda Blog but was unable to visit her personally. Instead, she created a virtual baby shower online and we are invited! There is a group gift/spiritual bouquet, game, prizes…all the usual baby shower fun. Go check out the baby shower and you may be inspired to host one for your online friend. šŸ™‚



Faith & Family Live! : Encouraging Women

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I love this blog post from Faith & Family Live! It was just what I needed to hear. (Thanks, Rachel!)

Encouraging Women

Several years ago, when my boys were very, very little, a friend with older children told me to enjoy these years–because they were “easy.” Compared to what she was going through with teenagers, I guess it seemed like my life with four boys under aged five was a cinch.
She told me to enjoy these grand years and I proceeded to hyperventilate–things certainly didn’t seem all that easy from where I stood!
Now that I have some older children (but no real teens just yet) I see what she meant in a sense –things are a bit simpler when the children are younger. But I will tell you right now that life with little children is challenging in a very unique way, and I have found it to be the most challenging.
I still remember how very discouraged I felt after that comment. I didn’t need to hear that things were going to get harder because I felt like I was barely treading water as it is. Comparing myself to others didn’t give me any extra grace to move through my day.
Likewise, I think it can be very easy for mothers to look at a family with more children and wonder “how they do it” (I certainly do this from time to time). It is tempting to compare family size and then wonder why we struggle to get through the day when another woman with more children seems to do just fine. But this gets us nowhere!
As women, as nurturers, as mothers-to-be or mothers of many or a few, we need to encourage each other. None of us should ever feel like we are doing less (or made to feel that way) because our family size is smaller or our children are at an “easier” stage–we are all operating on the grace given to us to live our own life, the one God has given us. There is not grace for me to have nine children because God has given me six. Likewise, the mother of three children has the grace for that–she doesn’t need grace for anything else.
Be encouraged! Whether you have one baby or six babies, whether your children are tiny or teens or somewhere in-between–keep up the good work. And don’t compare–don’t think for a minute things *should* be easier because you have fewer children or older children–embrace where you are at right now and know the grace God sends will be exactly what you need, to help you through your day.