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Our Favorite Advent Family Activities 2021

(This is the 2021 updated version of last year’s Advent post. 🙂 )

 

Happy Advent 2021! Whether you’re being minimal this year or doing all the things, I hope it’s a time of reflection, peace, joy, and drawing closer to God. Here are some of our favorites (and a few new things) that we do for Advent.

Advent Prayer Tables

We have two main prayer tables/shelves in our house. This one is by the front door. Here we add the nativity scene (purchased at Costco) and our Advent wreath. When the kids were younger, our thin Advent candles would always topple over or break. I finally bought pillar candles. It was the best decision, since these have lasted years. The wooden Advent sign I bought years ago from Rakstar Designs.

This prayer spot is in the family room. Last year we added this new gorgeous Holy Family print from Heart of Iesvs.

I am obsessed with it! So beautiful! To hang it up, I bought wooden magnetic frames from Amazon. It was super easy to put together and I think it looks great. (You want to buy a frame that is slightly bigger than the width of your print.)

This year we added the Jesse Tree from The Stump of Jesse shop at Etsy. And…

 

This St. Andrew Christmas Novena Prayer card from Redeemed and Free at Etsy. And…

The Baby Jesus manger with “sacrifice straw” from the 2021 Advent Liturgical Box from Catholic All Year.

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The Advent Calendar 1

Revolution of Love Blog - advent_calendar_pic_1Along with our Advent wreath, our Advent calendar has been a staple since the kids were little. Each day we have a rotating “prayer person of the day” who is in charge of leading the family evening prayer. During Advent, that person also gets to open the next box in our Advent calendar. We started this tradition years ago to take the focus off what we want to get, and instead, practice doing for others. We call it an Act of Love Calendar because we show our love for Jesus by sharing that love with others.

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advent_calendar_pic_2WI use the children’s printable Advent calendar from Loyola Press. I cut up the calendar and put the little paper squares into the corresponding day. In the morning we read the act of kindness and complete it that day. At dinner time, we each take a turn sharing something about our day. During Advent I’ll sometimes ask if anyone wants to share about their act of love and they explain how they held their tongue or helped someone out at school. The sharing helps us to see how we can apply our faith into the daily fabric of our lives.
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Advent Calendar 2

Last year we purchased these beautiful Names of Jesus Advent cards from Lara at Jesus Advent Calendar.com. We loved using them and put them back up this year.
The package comes with everything you need to set it up: 24 beautifully hand designed cards, 24 natural wood pegs, 4m long natural jute twin, a handy bag to store the pegs, and a sturdy box to keep it safe every year. Lara sends an email with corresponding Scripture readings and thoughts about each name. It’s been a great addition to our Advent activities.
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A Letter to Baby Jesus (Instead of Santa)

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This is another oldie but goodie. We’ve done this activity for many years and now it’s a family tradition for each of us. Instead of having the boys write the traditional letters to Santa, I put together a simple form letter that I could print off and give them to fill out. We decide on a spiritual activity we’ll work on during Advent as a gift to Jesus, who we will pray for during Advent and what presents we hope to get to celebrate Jesus’ birthday. When they were done, they folded up their letters and put them in their shoes for St. Nicholas to deliver to Baby Jesus. (In years past we’ve also placed them inside the stocking we have hanging for Jesus.)

If you’d like to print of a copy of the Letter to Baby Jesus, it can be found here. Also, I made a second version for those who don’t want the Santa aspect. It can be found here.

For the full post, click here – A Favorite Advent Tradition: A Christmas Letter to Baby Jesus (Instead of Santa)

 

An Advent Letter to Jesus for the Teens and Adults

This year, I used the same concept as the kid’s letter, but made a simple version for a teen or adult to use. You still choose some spiritual (or corporal) act you’ll offer to Jesus. You choose someone to pray for during Advent and instead of asking for a wrapped gift, you can write down what you are hoping to receive from Jesus this Christmas season. (ie. Peace in your heart, the ability to forgive someone who has hurt you, healing (physical or mental), etc.) You can download a PDF of the letter here.

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Jesus in the Manger

For years we used a paper version of Baby Jesus in a manger, but we saved up and found one we liked in the EWTN shop. We wait until Christmas morning to put out Baby Jesus. Meanwhile, during Advent we have a little basket of tan pieces of yarn (used as straw) that family members can use to fill up Baby Jesus’s crib. They put a piece in the manger whenever they make a sacrifice or do an act of love for Our Lord.

Then on Christmas morning we put Jesus in the manger and sing Him Happy Birthday and celebrate with presents and cake.

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Magnifikid’s Daily Advent Prayers

My favorite Advent family devotional/ prayer book is the Magnifikid Daily Advent Prayers from Magnificat. For each day of Advent there is an introductory prayer, an excerpt from the day’s Gospel reading, and intercessions. It is ideally for ages 7 and up, which makes it simple enough for our youngest to understand, yet it is meaty enough for the tween, teen and adults to get something out of it. The artwork is lovely and as an added bonus, it can be used year after year since it has different Sunday readings for the various cycles. I love it!

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Advent Journals

If you follow me on Instagram, you already know that I am a big fan of the Blessed Is She Advent journals. If you still want to buy one, each copy now comes with a digital download so you can start reading before your book arrives.

This year, the book is extra special to me since I am one of the authors of the devotional. I wrote the reflections for Week Four on the Holy Family.

 

Photo credit: Blessed Is She

Plus, this year they have one for kids as well. Matthew is eager to work on his.

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Sunday Missals

Photo credit: Every Sacred Sunday

 

I love the Every Sacred Sunday Mass journal and have been using it for a number of years.

Bella and I use the ESS Missal, but Brian and the boys prefer to use the St. Joseph’s 2022 Sunday Missal. You cannot beat the price – under $3!

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Feast of St. Nicholas

 

St. Nicholas was born in the 3rd Century to a wealthy and devout family. His parents died when he was young & Nicholas used his inheritance to help those less fortunate. He dedicated his life to serving God and was made Bishop of Myra (modern day Turkey) at a young age. Under the Roman Emperor, he was persecuted for his faith and was imprisoned. He was later released and became known for his generosity and works of wonder, particularly protecting children and the innocent.

More Catholic American families are adopting this feast day that is popular in European countries. Normally children will put out their shoes or hang stockings the night before. As mentioned above, our family also adds into the shoes the letter to Baby Jesus so St. Nicholas can bring it to Him.

While the kids are sleeping I’ll add a few small treats into the shoes – chocolate coins, candy, a small treat (like a mini Lego set or football cards) and a religious item such as a holy card, rosary or Tiny Saints charm.

You can find a lot of activities and printables at St Nicholas Center.org.

 

This year I found these amazing book marks from The Stump of Jesse and these beautiful prayer cards from Avery and Company Shop. The family loved them so much, I bought more for stocking stuffers.

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Spirit of Giving

Advent is perfect time to give of your time, talent, and treasure. Some charity activities have been modified to cope with the pandemic, but we have been able to collect food for the homeless and fill shoe boxes of goodies for the Box of Joy ministry. (Pictured above.) The kids did extra jobs around the house to pay for the items we purchased. (Tip: I buy extra school supplies and crayons when they are crazy cheap during back to school sales to fill Christmas boxes.)

We also give to the Falge Farm Worker program that brings food, supplies, and Christmas presents to migrant agricultural workers on the Central Coast of California. They are out in the fields doing back-breaking work in all conditions – cold, heat, smokey skies, even a pandemic – so giving back to them is a joy. We always sponsor one boy and one girl. This year we added a family as well.

We also try to bring a little cheer to the people in our community, such as our delivery people who bring countless boxes to our door, so I don’t have to go out shopping.

Every morning I leave a basket of snacks and drinks on the porch. Last year I added hard to find Covid items for them. It’s a small thing, but it gives them (and me) joy. 🙂

Those are some of my favorites Advent family activities! What are some of yours?

Have a great weekend!

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Our Favorite Advent Family Activities 2020

I think we’re all ready for the joys of Advent and Christmas! Whether you’re being minimal this year or doing all the things, I hope it’s a time of reflection, peace, joy, and drawing closer to God. Here are some of our favorites (and a few new things) that we do for Advent.

Advent Prayer Tables

We have two main prayer tables/shelves in our house. This one is by the front door. Here we add the nativity scene (purchased at Costco) and our Advent wreath. When the kids were younger, our thin Advent candles would always topple over or break. I finally bought pillar candles. It was the best decision, since these have lasted years. The wooden Advent sign I bought years ago from Rakstar Designs.

This prayer spot is in the family room. We added this new gorgeous Holy Family print from Heart of Iesvs.

I am obsessed with it! So beautiful! To hang it up, I bought wooden magnetic frames from Amazon. It was super easy to put together and I think it looks great. (You want to buy a frame that is slightly bigger than the width of your print.)

 

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The Advent Calendar 1

Revolution of Love Blog - advent_calendar_pic_1Along with our Advent wreath, our Advent calendar has been a staple since the kids were little. Each day we have a rotating “prayer person of the day” who is in charge of leading the family evening prayer. During Advent, that person also gets to open the next box in our Advent calendar. We started this tradition years ago to take the focus off what we want to get, and instead, practice doing for others. We call it an Act of Love Calendar because we show our love for Jesus by sharing that love with others.

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advent_calendar_pic_2WI use the children’s printable Advent calendar from Loyola Press. I cut up the calendar and put the little paper squares into the corresponding day. In the morning we read the act of kindness and complete it that day. At dinner time, we each take a turn sharing something about our day. During Advent I’ll sometimes ask if anyone wants to share about their act of love and they explain how they held their tongue or helped someone out at school. The sharing helps us to see how we can apply our faith into the daily fabric of our lives.
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Advent Calendar 2

This year we purchased these beautiful Names of Jesus Advent cards from Lara at Jesus Advent Calendar.com.
The package comes with everything you need to set it up: 24 beautifully hand designed cards, 24 natural wood pegs, 4m long natural jute twin, a handy bag to store the pegs, and a sturdy box to keep it safe every year. Lara sends an email with corresponding Scripture readings and thoughts about each name. It’s been a great addition to our Advent activities.
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A Letter to Baby Jesus (Instead of Santa)

Revolution of Love Blog - A letter to Baby Jesus (Instead of Santa) - letter_baby_jesusW

This is another oldie but goodie. We’ve done this activity for many years and now it’s a family tradition for each of us. Instead of having the boys write the traditional letters to Santa, I put together a simple form letter that I could print off and give them to fill out. We decide on a spiritual activity we’ll work on during Advent as a gift to Jesus, who we will pray for during Advent and what presents we hope to get to celebrate Jesus’ birthday. When they were done, they folded up their letters and put them in their shoes for St. Nicholas to deliver to Baby Jesus. (In years past we’ve also placed them inside the stocking we have hanging for Jesus.)

 If you’d like to print of a copy of the Letter to Baby Jesus, it can be found here. Also, I made a second version for those who don’t want the Santa aspect. It can be found here.

 

For the full post, click here – A Favorite Advent Tradition: A Christmas Letter to Baby Jesus (Instead of Santa)

 

An Advent Letter to Jesus for the Teens and Adults

This year, I used the same concept as the kid’s letter, but made a simple version for a teen or adult to use. You still choose some spiritual (or corporal) act you’ll offer to Jesus. You choose someone to pray for during Advent and instead of asking for a wrapped gift, you can write down what you are hoping to receive from Jesus this Christmas season. (ie. Peace in your heart, the ability to forgive someone who has hurt you, healing (physical or mental), etc.) You can download a PDF of the letter here.

 

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Jesus in the Manger

For years we used a paper version of Baby Jesus in a manger, but we saved up and found one we liked in the EWTN shop. We wait until Christmas morning to put out Baby Jesus. Meanwhile, during Advent we have a little basket of tan pieces of yarn (used as straw) that family members can use to fill up Baby Jesus’s crib. They put a piece in the manger whenever they make a sacrifice or do an act of love for Our Lord.

Then on Christmas morning we put Jesus in the manger and sing Him Happy Birthday and celebrate with presents and cake.

 

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Magnifikid’s Daily Advent Prayers

My favorite Advent family devotional/ prayer book is the new Magnifikid Daily Advent Prayers from Magnificat. For each day of Advent there is an introductory prayer, an excerpt from the day’s Gospel reading, and intercessions. It is ideally for ages 7 and up, which makes it simple enough for our youngest to understand, yet it is meaty enough for the tween, teen and adults to get something out of it. The artwork is lovely and as an added bonus, it can be used year after year since it has different Sunday readings for the various cycles. I love it!

 

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Advent Journals

If you follow me on Instagram, you already know that I am a big fan of the Blessed Is She Advent journals. If you still want to buy one, each copy now comes with a digital download so you can start reading before your book arrives. Or you can get the audio version of Maranatha on Amazon for less than $5.

Photo credit: Blessed Is She

Plus, this year they have one for kids as well. Matthew is eager to work on his.

 

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Sunday Missals

I love the Every Sacred Sunday Mass journal and during this year of Covid, it has been especially helpful, whether we are attending Mass virtually at home or at an outdoor Mass.

Bella and I use the ESS Missal, but Brian and the boys prefer to use the St. Joseph’s 2020 Sunday Missal. You cannot beat the price – only $1.99!

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Feast of St. Nicholas

St. Nicholas was born in the 3rd Century to a wealthy and devout family. His parents died when he was young & Nicholas used his inheritance to help those less fortunate. He dedicated his life to serving God and was made Bishop of Myra (modern day Turkey) at a young age. Under the Roman Emperor, he was persecuted for his faith and was imprisoned. He was later released and became known for his generosity and works of wonder, particularly protecting children and the innocent.

More Catholic American families are adopting this feast day that is popular in European countries. Normally children will put out their shoes or hang stockings the night before. As mentioned above, our family also adds into the shoes the letter to Baby Jesus so St. Nicholas can bring it to Him.

While the kids are sleeping I’ll add a few small treats into the shoes – chocolate coins, candy, a small treat (like a mini Lego set or football cards) and a religious item such as a holy card, rosary or Tiny Saints charm.

You can find a lot of activities and printables at St Nicholas Center.org.

Photo credit: Somedaysaints.com

Last year we got an extra special treat – Kids Adoration Journal and Tote Bundle from Someday Saints.com. Technically this is for kids ages 7-12, which is great for my boys, but the rest of us over that age loved it too, so we all got one! When the kids were younger, they also loved watching the DVD Nicholas: The Boy who Became Santa with their feast day dessert.

 

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Spirit of Giving

Advent is perfect time to give of your time, talent, and treasure. We can’t do activities with other people (like singing carols at a nursing home) but we have been able to collect food for the homeless, purchase items  for the local migrant workers, and fill shoe boxes of goodies for the Box of Joy ministry. (Pictured above.)  The kids did extra jobs around the house to pay for the items we purchased. (Tip: I buy extra school supplies and crayons when they are crazy cheap during back to school sales to fill Christmas boxes.)

We also try to bring a little cheer to the people in our community, such as our delivery people who bring countless boxes to our door, so I don’t have to go out shopping.

Every morning I leave a basket of snacks, drinks, and Covid items (toilet paper rolls, hand sanitizer, etc.) for them. It’s a small thing, but it gives them (and me) joy. 🙂

Those are some of my favorites Advent family activities! What are some of yours?

Have a great weekend!

PS – You can follow Revolution of Love on Bloglovin, Feedly or another news feed. If you are a social media fan like me, we can stay in touch through Facebook, Twitter, Instagram, Pinterest, GoodReads, Letterboxd, or Spotify. 😉

 


How We Celebrate Dia de los Muertos, All Saints’ Day, and All Souls’ Day as a Catholic Family

 

Dia de los Muertos

Dia de los Muertos (“Day of the Dead”) is a Mexican holiday celebrating life and death, specifically remembering loved ones who have died. Traditionally, it is a two-day holiday that believes we are reunited with our loved ones. Families build altars called ofrendas (“offerings”) with photos of their beloved deceased and decorate it with yellow marigolds, and their favorite foods to encourage them to visit from the land of the dead.

The origins of Dia de los Muertos is non-Christian and we, as Catholics, don’t believe the souls of our loved ones will “visit” us on these two days (as portrayed in the popular movie Coco.) However, we do believe that our loved ones remain alive in Christ (John 11:25) and we can (and should) pray for them. In the Catholic Church, our celebration of life after death is especially evident during All Saints’ Day on November 1 and All Souls’ Day on November 2. These feast days emphasize the Communion of Saints and the fact that we are still connected to those who died before us.

Dia de los Muertos is celebrated during these feast days and the traditions of praying for the dead, visiting and cleaning graves, making commemorative altars, enjoying a special meal to celebrate their lives are all meaningful acts that unite our hearts to theirs.

Although I’m Hispanic, I’ve never celebrated Dia de los Muertos. My first real glimpse into the holiday was during the aforementioned movie Coco. We were visiting my parents at the time, and the kids and I accompanied them to watch the movie. I loved it! A year and a half later, my mom passed away from cancer and the desire to honor her life inspired me to incorporate Dia de los Muertos with our Catholic feast days.

We started by building a Catholic version of the ofrenda, emphasizing praying for the dead.

 

RevolutionofLove.com - bis_altar_1First I cleared off our normal prayer table and switch the icon from the Sacred Heart to Divine Mercy.

Then I found boxes to serve as tiers for our altar.

I covered the boxes and the table with a yellow table cloth and some Mexican style table runners and place mats that I bought at Target a couple years ago. I also found similar ones in a local Mexican market. We added items such as:  Photos of deceased family members, papel picado (colorful paper flags), yellow marigolds, and (battery operated) votive candles.

There’s also a crucifix, icon of Our Lady of Sorrows, holy card of St. Joseph (patron of a happy death.)

I used PicMonkey to create the pictured prayer for the dead. (PicMonkey has a “day of the dead” theme with appropriate graphics.) I placed the prayer in a 5×7 picture frame.

I saved the photo as a PDF and put it in my Google Drive if you’d like to print it out and use it for your prayer table.

 

We placed another frame on the altar that has the names of family members and friends who have died.

Together these are a reminder that our loved ones are gone, but not forgotten. Our prayers and love for them remains strong.

If you don’t want to make a big ofrenda, you can do a smaller version with the a few photos, a candle, and the prayer card on a shelf. A couple years ago, before we created an ofrenda, I made this print (using PicMonkey) to display the photos of relatives who have recently died, along with the Faithful Departed prayer. We placed the photo on our little prayer table in the family room (next to where we eat) and we recite the prayer when we say grace before eating dinner.

 

All Souls Day Prayer & Family Photos

I downloaded the photo to Google Drive. You could download the photo template and use PicMonkey to make your own version, like I did, or you can simply print out a copy and write in the name of your loved ones or even tape their photo(s) to it.

 

All Saints Day

 

On the feast of All Saints Day, we celebrate the saints of the church, both known and unknown, who have reached heaven.

When the kids were younger, they’d dress up as their favorite saints and attend All Saints’ Day parties.

Now that they are older, they don’t dress up, but we attend Mass together as a family and during our evening prayers, we pray the Litany of the Saints.

The kids may be too old for costumes, but they’re never to old for special treats! The cute tableware and the paper decorations are from Be A Heart.com.

All Souls’ Day

The Communion of Saints is comprised of three group: The Church Triumphant, the faithful who have died and are now in heaven. The Church Militant, those of us on earth still on our journey to Heaven. And the Church Penitent, the faithful departed who are still expiating their sins in Purgatory. All Souls Day is dedicated to this, often forgotten, portion of God’s family.

“All who die in God’s grace and friendship, but still imperfectly purified, are indeed assured of their eternal salvation; but after death they undergo purification, so as to achieve the holiness necessary to enter the joy of heaven. (Catechism of the Catholic Church, 1030)”

The Church encourages and gives us ample opportunity to pray for the dead in the month of November. Our prayers, Masses, indulgences, sacrifices, and works of mercy are our way of loving and helping the Faithful Departed.

On All Souls’ Day, we visit our local cemetery, where my father-in-law is buried. We clean his grave and add fresh flowers. It’s interesting to see other graves and how families have decorated them with flowers and items that they loved.

I give each of the kids a handful of flowers and allow them to walk around the cemetery and choose people who don’t have any flowers or decorations.

They offer a prayer for them and leave a flower at their grave.

Their choices have included older persons, young kids, soldiers, priests and religious, and a teen who recently took his life. One of the people I prayed for was a woman with the same name as my mom since her grave was too far away for me to visit. It was a moving experience.

Together Dia De Los Muertos, All Saints’ Day, and All Souls’ Day remind us that this life is a journey towards Heaven and death cannot separate us from the love we share with each other. The grief of loss is tempered with the knowledge that, God willing, we will all be together again one day.

How do you celebrate these feast days? I’d love to hear your traditions. 🙂

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Favorite Advent Family Activities 2019

Many of you have asked for the links of items we use during Advent, so I made today’s Friday Favorites an Advent Edition so the links would be in one convenient spot.  🙂

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The Advent Calendar

Revolution of Love Blog - advent_calendar_pic_1Along with our Advent wreath, our Advent calendar has been a staple since the kids were little. Each day we have a rotating “prayer person of the day” who is in charge of leading the family evening prayer. During Advent, that person also gets to open the next box in our Advent calendar. We started this tradition years ago as a way to combat the seasonal “gimmies” to help bring the focus back on Christ and sharing his love with others. We started the tradition of making our Advent Calendar into an Act of Love Calendar. We explained that we can show our love for Jesus by sharing that love with others and what we do for others, we do for Our Lord.

advent_calendar_pic_2WTo keep things simple, I searched online for a children’s printable Advent calendar. I found this one from Loyola Press. I simply cut up the calendar and put the little paper squares into the corresponding day. Each day we had one act of kindness that everyone in the family would do. If one of the day’s activities was not suitable for our family or if there were other acts or activities I wanted our family to work on, I just wrote my own words on a slip of paper and added it in a box. On Sundays our act of love is spending time together so we do something fun as a family, such as, decorate our Christmas tree or bake cookies or watch a Christmas movie together (without fighting about who gets to choose the movie.)
At dinner time, we each take a turn sharing something about our day. During Advent I’ll sometimes ask if anyone wants to share about their act of love and they explain how they held their tongue or helped someone out at school. The sharing helps us to see how we can apply our faith into the daily fabric of our lives.

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A Letter to Baby Jesus (Instead of Santa)

Revolution of Love Blog - A letter to Baby Jesus (Instead of Santa) - letter_baby_jesusW

This is another oldie but goodie. We’ve done this activity for a number of years and now it’s a family tradition for each of us. Instead of having the boys write the traditional letters to Santa, I put together a simple form letter that I could print off and give them to fill out. We decide on a spiritual activity we’ll work on during Advent as a gift to Jesus, who we will pray for during Advent and what presents we hope to get to celebrate Jesus’ birthday. When they were done, they folded up their letters and put them in their shoes for St. Nicholas to deliver to Baby Jesus. (In years past we’ve also placed them inside the stocking we have hanging for Jesus.)

If you’d like to print of a copy of the Letter to Baby Jesus for your little ones, I posted the PDF here. Also, I made a second version for those who don’t want the Santa aspect. It can be found here. 🙂 For the full post, click here – A Favorite Advent Tradition: A Christmas Letter to Baby Jesus (Instead of Santa)

 

An Advent Letter to Jesus for the Teens and Adults

This year, I used the same concept as the kid’s letter, but made a simple version for a teen or adult to use. You still choose some spiritual (or corporal) act/gift you’ll give to Jesus, someone you will pray for during Advent, and instead of asking for a wrapped gift, you can write down what you are hoping to receive from Jesus this Christmas season. (ie. Peace in your heart, the ability to forgive someone who has hurt you, healing (physical or mental), etc.) You can download a PDF of the letter from my Google Drive here.

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Jesus in the Manger

For years we used a paper version of Baby Jesus in a manger, but we saved up and found one we liked in the EWTN shop. We wait until Christmas morning to put out Baby Jesus. Meanwhile, during Advent we have a little basket of straw that the kids can use to fill up Baby Jesus’s crib. They put a piece in the manger whenever they make a sacrifice or do an act of love for Our Lord.

Then on Christmas morning we put Jesus in the manger and sing Him Happy Birthday and celebrate with presents and cake.

 

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Magnifikid’s Daily Advent Prayers

My favorite Advent family devotional/ prayer book is the new Magnifikid Daily Advent Prayers from Magnificat. For each day of Advent there is an introductory prayer,  an excerpt from the day’s Gospel reading, and intercessions. It is ideally for ages 7 and up, which makes it simple enough for our youngest to understand, yet it is meaty enough for the tween, teen and adults to get something out of it. The artwork is lovely and as an added bonus, it can be used year after year since it has different Sunday readings for the various cycles. I love it!

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The Advent of Christmas

Last year we added The Advent of Christmas by Matt Maher to our Christmas book collection. Although my boys are a little older than the age range, the artwork is lovely and the message is beautiful. It was perfect to read during library class at school to teach the students who may not be as familiar with the meaning of Advent and the Advent wreath. It has quickly become a favorite.

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Sunday Missals

I love the Every Sacred Sunday Mass journal and posted about it often on Instagram. Someone asked if there is a kid’s version. As far as I know there is not.

One of my boys likes to use the Magnificat’s Magnifikid.

My other boys, along with Brian, like to use St. Joseph’s 2020 Sunday Missal. You cannot beat the price – only $1.99!

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Brian and the boys use the above missals and they use Blessed Is She’s Selah Kids Journal as their Sunday prayer journal.

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Feast of St. Nicholas

St. Nicholas was born in the 3rd Century to a wealthy and devout family. His parents died when he was young & Nicholas used his inheritance to help those less fortunate. He dedicated his life to serving God and was made Bishop of Myra (modern day Turkey) at a young age. Under the Roman Emperor, he was persecuted for his faith and was imprisoned. He was later released and became known for his generosity and works of wonder, particularly protecting children and the innocent.

More Catholic American families are adopting this feast day that is popular in European countries. Normally children will put out their shoes or hang stockings the night before. As mentioned above, our family also adds into the shoes the letter to Baby Jesus so St. Nicholas can bring it to Him.

While the kids are sleeping I’ll add a few small treats into the shoes – chocolate coins, candy, a small treat (like a mini Lego set or football cards) and a religious item such as a holy card, rosary or Tiny Saints charm.

You can find a lot of activities and printables at St Nicholas Center.org.

Photo credit: Somedaysaints.com

This year we got an extra special treat – Kids Adoration Journal and Tote Bundle from Someday Saints.com. Technically this is for kids ages 7-12, which is great for my boys, but the rest of us over that age loved it too, so we all got one! Later in the day we have watched the DVD Nicholas: The Boy who Became Santa with their feast day dessert.

For more Advent ideas, check out this past post – Favorite Advent Traditions 2017.

Those are some of my favorites Advent family activities! What are some of yours?

Have a great weekend!

PS – You can follow Revolution of Love on Bloglovin, Feedly or another news feed. If you are a social media fan like me, we can stay in touch through Facebook, Twitter, Instagram, Pinterest, GoodReads, Letterboxd, or Spotify. 😉

 


Lenten Family Activities and House Decor

Happy Ash Wednesday! Today on Instagram’s Stories I was talking about decorating our house for Lent. A couple people asked me to share how I decorate so I thought I would do a quick post about how we set up our Lenten decor and family activities.

Normally, our home already has Sacred Spaces – tables or tops of shelves where we have icons, candles, a Bible or statues. I share about the various spaces in our house in the post Creating a Sacred Space for Prayer. Today I’ll just be focusing about Lent.

First, I love putting wreaths or seasonal welcome signs on our front door. For Lent, I made a simple Lenten wreath to mark the season. I used a grape vine wreath and purple ribbon I purchased at a craft store. Super simple.

In our home’s entryway we have a prayer table that pretty much stays the same year round (except during Advent.) During Lent, I drape the Sacred Heart icon with a purple piece of cloth that was material remnant from a craft store. I use a purple vase and usually have purple flowers.

Also in the entryway we have a small bookcase and I placed the Blessed Is She “She Who Believed” Print in a frame with a statue of Our Lady and some flowers. (There were lots of Valentine flowers from my Sweetie to put around the house!)

The family room is where we are the most often to eat, watch TV or say our family night prayers. I use the top of a low shelf to make this seasonal prayer space. For Lent we remove the St. Michael the Archangel and St Therese icons and place John the Baptist and Padre Pio to remind us of the importance to repent and turn back to God.

This photo was taken last year when I also set up a candle centerpiece using a long rectangular tray filled with six votive candles for the six weeks of Lent. (This year I forgot to buy more votive candle at Target so I’ll do that this weekend.)

I purchased tiny wreaths from Michael’s Craft Store that fit around the candle. We add a wreath to a candle on each Sunday of Lent. We light the candles in the evening during our family prayer.

Two years ago I purchased/ printed off this Lent Calendar from Do Small Things with Great Love.com. I placed it in an inexpensive frame from Ikea. (It was made with plastic front, not glass.)  At first we used a dry erase pen to mark a cross on each day as it passed. It is great for the kids, who have no sense of time, to see how many more days until Easter. After a few years of use, however, the front of the plastic frame was getting beat up so I removed it and they mark straight on the paper.

We also like Kendra’s idea of using Sacrifice Beans. Every time a family member makes an Acts of Love or makes a sacrifice they put a dried kidney bean in the bowl. On Easter Sunday the dry beans are changed to jelly beans (or some other treat.)

Another activity the kids enjoy is the Act of Love Jar. They are able to make their own sacrifices but if they need a little inspiration, they can choose something out of the jar. It will say things such as: I will share a toy with my brother. I will not complain today. I will clean up my room without being asked. I will make a card for someone to cheer them up. I will be nice to someone I don’t usually talk to at school. Things like that.

The Prayer Jar has a special intention for each day. During our evening prayer we pick out a petition to pray for such as: For pregnant moms. For our firefighters. For our priests. For those entering the Church on Easter. For the souls in purgatory. For people sick in the hospital. For the homeless. Etc. Anyone can also add their own intention into the jar too.

When we first started family prayer time the boys were younger and a lot more wild. There were nights when prayer ended with boys literally coming to blows and screaming over who got to blow out the candle or pick the prayer intention, which then followed with me yelling at them and Brian sending them to their rooms for misbehaving. (Aw, peaceful prayer time.)

Since they are used to having a “Student of the Day” in school so we took that same concept with the “prayer helper of the day.” The name rotates and that person is in charge of leading prayer, marking the day on the Lent calendar, picking the petition, blowing out the candle etc. It’s our third year doing it and my then 3, 5 and 7 year olds are now 6, 8 and 10 doing prayers without a single punch or fight. LOL. Frankly, they are doing an awesome job. (Although we are still battling a few “do we have to pray” attitudes now and then…. and, truth be told, its not always from the kids… she admitted guiltily.) 😉

A couple years ago we started using the Blessed Is She stations of the cross cards. I added them to the prayer space using a little stand and rotating them.

This year, Blessed Is She put out new Mary’s Way of the Cross Cards. I pinned them to some twine I hooked to the wall next to our prayer space.

During the week we pray a decade of the rosary. This lent we will pray Stations of the Cross on Fridays. We will use this book The Way of the Cross from Magnificat/Ignatius.

What about you? Do you have a favorite Lenten family activity? Do you decorate your house during Lent? Share in the comments. 🙂

Have a blessed Lent.

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