Revolution of Love

Revolution of Love

Do small things with great love.

7 Quick Takes (4/13/12): Accidents, Musicals, & Flashback Music Weekend

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Hosted by Jen at Conversion Diary.

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Rain, Rain Go Away… – This month we are definitely getting the April showers that bring May flowers but I don’t remember every having such a wet April before. Having lived in Southern California for the first three decade of my life, I am used to one kind of weather pattern – sunny. Now that I am living on the central coast of California, I am used to two kinds of weather – sunny or cool and foggy. So having four days in a row of rain and a thunder and lightning storm last night, well, that worthy of its own Quick Take! I just hope that the rain stops by next week because Bella is going on a two day trip with her class to Sacramento and the Gold Country to learn about California history. I’ll be one of the chaperones and although we won’t be sleeping in tents (I think it’s more of a primitive cabin) I’d rather do it in sunny weather!

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The Family Tree Grows – It may be grey and dreary but we received joyous news this week – my sister EL gave birth to her fourth child, a little girl named Harriet Rose. Congratulations, sis! And I am an aunt for the fifth time. Yay! Just call me Auntie B. šŸ˜‰ Look at her…how sweet is she?!

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(This Quick Take is long so it counts as two.)
Accidents, Threats & Videotapes – Unfortunately that bit of news was hampered a couple days later when I got into a car accident. Remember what I said about the rain? On Tuesday, I dropped the boys off at pre school. Bella was on Easter break so she, Matthew and I were driving home. Just as we turned around a bend in the highway there was a pile up from a previous accident. I hit the brakes and the car seemed to slide all over the road but I was able to stop in time. I breathed a sigh of relief and just as I was thinking, “I hope the guy in back of me stops in time…bam! We get slammed from behind. I move to the side of the road and the woman (60ish?) was very apologetic. We see that no one is hurt and the damage doesn’t look too bad etc. As we exchange info some guy comes up and starts videotaping us. She walks over to him and tells him to turn off his video camera (it was a larger one), that the accident is over, this is a private matter etc. They sort of get into it and I hear the guy yell, “I know my rights… don’t touch me… I’m suing… assault… ” and the like. I’m thinking what kind of crazy guy is this and why is she talking to him and not ignoring him so we can get out of here?
I finish writing my info down (I already had hers) and I see the lady talking and gesturing to the guy as he is walking backwards videotaping her, sort of egging her on. Soon they have walked so far down the road I can’t see them anymore. I look around. Am I being punked? Should I leave? I left my info in her car and got back into my van and out of the rain. I am sitting there wondering if I should make a u-turn and go find the lady. I don’t want her to get hurt. Thankfully, just then some cops stopped to make sure I am okay. I explain to them what happened and they said I could leave and they’d go and check on the guy and the lady. To make a long story short (oops, too late!) the lady came back safely. (And she has been more than generous in making sure we are okay.) She told me later that the guy likes to videotape people and threatens to sue but he has no case here. Meanwhile, my Sienna is in the shop to see what kind of damage has been done. However, if you are browsing the internet and you find a YouTube video of an older woman arguing with some random guy on the road and you see a short, chubby Hispanic mom with a WTH? look on her face in the background, you’ll know that’s me. šŸ˜‰

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Do Re Mi Fa So La Ti – After that harrowing accident, Bella and I decided to go home and make a cup of hot chocolate, warm up some cinnamon rolls for breakfast and watch an old movie. We’ve been on a musical kick and it all started when she said they were singing songs from the Sound of Music in her music class. I told her we should watch the movie together since every night when the boys are going to sleep and Brian is showering or getting things ready for work the next day, Bella and I have a half hour window where we cuddle up on the couch and watch a movie (well, a portion of it) together. Sometimes it will be a Disney tween movie or an episode of Good Luck, Charlie (which I, ahem, actually enjoy) but last week I put on The Sound of Music instead. She loved it! We watched a little each night, completing it twice. This week we finished watching Meet Me in St. Louis with Judy Garland. Tonight we are going to start the 1949 version of Little Women with June Allyson. It’s not actually a musical but it is such a sweet movie, I think she’ll like it. Any other suggestions of what we should watch? (She prefers color and is not really into black and white, which is a bummer since Ā¾ of my movie collection is in B&W.)

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Birthday Contest – I also wanted to mention, if you haven’t been reading the blog regularly (What? Am I the only one with 500 posts in my Google reader waiting to be read??) that we are celebrating the blogs 9th birthday with a contest. You can win an RoL care package that will include your choice of books (selections include Style, Sex and Substance, The Catholics Next Door, The Book of Saints for Catholic Moms and The Catholic Girl’s Survival Guide for the Single Years) as well as a Divine Mercy icon, Mystic Monk coffee or tea and, of course, chocolate. Get the details here.

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Flashback Friday Five – Back in 2003, bloggers looked forward to filling out “The Friday Five” at the end of the week. I’ll close with a flashback of what I posted nine years ago, almost to the day.

Friday Five: Music Edition




1. What was the first band you saw in concert? Let’s see, years back it was a big Rock for Life concert in Orange County, CA. I think that first really got me into Christian alternative/hardcore music. But one of the first concerts I most vividly remember was when I drove to Santa Barbara, CA with my sister BC to see the hardcore band Focused. Oh, those guys were so awesome and so in love with God. They were the first band I ever interviewed (for the underground music zine I used to do.) Ah, such memories!


2. Who is your favorite artist/band now? Okay, you can tell I am a mommy now because at the moment I am listening to “Wags the Dog” by the Wiggles. (It is Bella’s Wiggle’s hour; that is the only time I am guaranteed some uninterrupted computer time!) But as far as I’m concerned, I have been listening to a lot of Jeremy Camp, Kutless, and Sixpense None the Richer. But I must say that I also loooove 80’s alternative music – The Cure, The Smiths, Morrissey, New Order, Psychedelic Furs, etc. Plus, good old classics like Dean Martin (reminds me of our honeymoon. Sigh.)


3. What’s your favorite song? This is a tough one. The song that always reminds me of Brian is The Cure’s “Lovesong.” I never tire of it.


4. If you could play any instrument, what would it be? Um, I always wished I could play the guitar, write my own music and sing my own songs. I may be able to get away with writing lyrics but the only instrument I can play is the Fisher-Price toddler drum set and my voice it not fit for anyplace other than the car while driving or perhaps in church if the choir sings real loud and drowns me out.


5. If you could meet any musical icon (past or present), who would it be and why? Back in my teen days I may have said someone like Morrissey from the Smiths but now I just see musical “icons” as regular joes and can’t think of one in particular that I’d single out. So I’ll have to think about that one.

LOL! Have a great weekend!


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Book Review & Discussion of “Style, Sex and Substance”

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When I first heard about Hallie Lord’s new book Style, Sex, and Substance: 10 Catholic Women Consider the Things that Really Matter I was ecstatic to find that many of my favorite Catholic writers/ bloggers/ moms were contributors. I preordered my book and when it finally arrived I planned to devour it immediately. Unfortunately, family circumstances prevented me from having much free time and when I did have a moment the book was never within reach. Finally I downloaded the book onto my Kindle & iPhone so I could read it anytime I had a spare moment. I’m so glad I did!
When I told a fellow mom the title of the book she was a bit skeptical – “Style and Sex?” Those were not high on her radar at this time of her life. Another single friend didn’t consider buying the book since she figured it was only for married moms. In reality, there is something here for every Catholic woman (and as this reviewer shows, Catholic men too!) The authors and topics covered are…

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Jennifer Fulwiler – How I Fell Out of My Minivan and Found Myself (Catholic Womanhood)
Hallie Lord – Style: Balance, Beauty, and You
Karen Edmisten – God & Godiva
Elizabeth Duffy – Sex, Passion, and Purity
Anna Mitchell – Single and Seeking God’s Plan
Rebecca Ryskind Teti – What Works for You?
Rachel Balducci – Fruitful Friendship
Danielle Bean – We Said Yes (Marriage)
Simcha Fisher – Receiving, Creating, and Letting Go: Motherhood in Body and Soul
Barbara Nicolosi – Plugging In and Embracing Discipleship in the 21st Century
I breezed through the pages loving the sense of humor and honesty displayed but I found myself time and time again stopping and re-reading a sentence because it was as if the Holy Spirit was tapping me on the shoulder and telling me to pay attention to the lesson He was trying to teach me.
Although, I read quickly through the book, it is not sufficient to stop there. I really need to go back and think about the points that stood out to me. There are also excellent discussion questions after each chapter that can be answered alone or within a book club. Because of this I’ve decided to read the book over and dig a little deeper. For the next few Wednesdays (starting April 18) I’ll share with you my thoughts about each chapter. Feel free to read along and share your own thoughts as well.
If you don’t already have a copy you can order it at Amazon (paperback or kindle) or enter the RoL Birthday Contest to try and win a copy – along with some other goodies! šŸ™‚
As a side note: This book is also a great gift! At the last baby shower I attended I gave the new mama a care package of tea, chocolate and this book. A perfect treat when she finally gets five minutes to herself! šŸ˜‰
Have a great day and we’ll start our discussion next Wednesday (4/18) with Chapter 1. šŸ™‚

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TV Talk: Great Expectations, Part 2

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This is going to be a short post since we are on Easter break right now. I tried watching the second part of Great Expectations last night but I was so tired that I kept drifting in and out of sleep until I woke up and didn’t know what the heck was going on. I gave up and went to bed instead. This morning I was able to finish watching and my emotions are mixed.
The storyline itself is rather dark and depressing and I just never really clicked with the actor playing Pip. It’s not that I didn’t enjoy the movie; rather, it just was not one of my favorite stories. I was pleased with the bits of redemption that came at the end – Pip reconciling with both Joe and Magwitch. Estella finding love.
My favorite character was Herbert Pocket (the little red headed brat in part 1) who changed his ways and became Pip’s most loyal friend. It is interesting to note that the actor Harry Lloyd who played Herbert is actually a descendant of Charles Dickens. Fun fact. šŸ™‚
Well, we have plenty to watch next week with Julian Fellowes’s Titanic on April 14 and 15.
Plus Masterpiece’s The Mystery of Edwin Drood on April 15th. My DVR will be working overtime!
Have a great day, hopefully, enjoying some gorgeous spring weather! šŸ™‚

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TV Talk – Once Upon A Time (The Stable Boy) & Grimm (Island of Dreams)

I think I am going to switch my organizing posts to Monday and save my TV post for Tuesday since it takes me a couple days to get caught up with what everyone watched over the weekend. It’s funny that when I heard that there were two fairy tale shows starting last fall I assumed I’d enjoy Grimm more than OUAT. Brian definitely prefers Grimm, but OUAT has really picked up and become one of my favorite shows.

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Once Upon A Time (The Stable Boy)



Regina – Sunday’s episode gave us The Stable Boy with Regina’s back story. We finally learn why she is so cruel and bitter. It is interesting to note that the abused has now become the abuser. It is also curious that we don’t see Regina take revenge on her mother, who killed her love. Instead, she takes it out on Snow. Then again, maybe she did get her revenge since we never saw her mother in the earlier episodes of Regina’s life in the castle. Do you think Regina’s mother could be the Queen of Hearts in Neverland, especially since her father was being held captive there in last week’s episode?
Little Snow – When I first saw the actress playing young Snow White I was trying to figure out what other movie I’ve seen her on but that was quickly forgotten as I watched her talk. Her facial expressions, the tilt of her head, the wide eyed looks she gave looked EXACTLY like Ginnifer Goodwin’s! It was amazing. I had to go back and rewind a few scenes because she was so good at portraying all the same nuances in Goodwin’s behavior. Awesome acting!
Mary Margaret – Thank God she decided to come back to the jail last week, although a lot of good it did with the DA twisting her words and making her sound even more guilty than before.
Emma – Her bit of temper actually served a purpose since she finally found the bug and realized the slimy Sidney was in cahoots with Regina. I am hoping that she continues to team up with the mysterious August Booth. And why was his leg hurting when he went passed the toll/troll bridge? Which fairytale character do you think he is?
David – David only had a few minutes screen time this week but I didn’t mind since I have been fed up with him long ago. The shabby way he treated Mary Margaret and Katherine, his indecisiveness, his wimpyness…all these things have been far from charming. His whole character has been so disappointing.
Mr. Gold – Mr. Gold is far from charming himself, is far from being a hero, and is a borderline bad guy, yet I can’t help but like and root for him. I keep hoping he is a double agent and working for Regina but secretly plotting her demise.
Katherine – Huh? I was not expecting to see her! Well, that should get MM off the hook!
The next episode won’t air until April 22 but it looks like another good one.

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Grimm – Island of Dreams



Are any of you Grimm fans? The last episode “Island of Dreams” had one of the creepiest creatures. I don’t know why it freaked me out more than the others. Monroe has a love interest! I am so happy. I heart Monroe. Who thought the neighbors who brought Nick and Juliette the quilt and pie actually poisoned them? Brian and I were certain they were tainted. I guess they are just trying to keep on their good side. Nick needs to come clean with Juliette! The longer he keeps his secret, the worse it will get. Besides, the girl can kick butt! She is stronger than she may even realize. What is going on with Hank? He seems to be the one getting sucker punched show after show. Give the guy a break already! What is Captain Renard up to?? What is happening to poor Sergeant Wu? Was he eating the couch cushion foam? Craaazy. Next week’s episode looks good too!
Let me know what you think…

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TV Talk Monday: A Date with Dickens – Great Expectations – Part 1

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I checked my DVR settings last night and noticed that I had a lot more recordings on there than I realized. Between the family recording favorite shows and movies, we were at 96% capacity. So I need to go and watch or erase some stuff! I almost never watch a show “live” so when I finally was able to sit down last night I was hoping to watch Once Upon A Time and Great Expectations but I never got to OUAT. I’ll come back and comment on OUAT’s episode later this week. (UPDATE: I posted about OUAT and Grimm here.)
It’s been many, many years since I’ve read Great Expectations and a long time since I’ve seen the 1999 version, which stared Ioan Gruffudd (currently on another fave show Ringer) as Pip, Justine Waddell (who I loved in Wives and Daughters) as Estelle and Charlotte Rampling as Miss Havisham. I was a little surprised, but excited, when I first heard that Gillian Anderson would play Miss H since I always pictured the character much older. However, I thought Gillian’s version made the character much more believable. Her mental illness and neurosis seemed plausible. Whereas before, the character seemed over the top.
The Setting – Masterpiece did a wonderful job conveying the somberness and a taste of despair in the setting and tone of the movie. I told Brian that after watching it I had the need to go take a fresh shower and open the windows or let some light in the room. The muck and grayness weighs on your spirit after awhile, but that only added to the story.
Pip and Estelle – Was Pip supposed to be that handsome in the book? I can’t remember. The actor had such a runway model/pretty boy look to him it was almost distracting. Either way, you can’t help feeling sorry for Pip and wanting to spare him the pain to come.
Joe and the Mrs. – Joe seems like such a loving character but how was it that he got married to his wife in the first place? Was she hiding her viciousness during their courtship or was he so passive that he let her call all the shots? Whatever the reasons, Joe’s bit of happiness seems to have left with Pip.
Orlick – The actor that played Orlick did an excellent job and thoroughly creeping me out. Kudos!
Jaggers – After seeing him I have to go watch a movie with Hercule Poirot. In fact, I think I already have one recorded on my ridiculously full DVR. Sigh.
That’s it for now but for more discussions about Great Expectations and OUAT go over to Dawn’s charming blog By Sun and Candlelight for Masterpiece Monday.
Have a great day!

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