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Speaking of books, I recently came across the blog Family Menu Planning Book.com by Catholic convert Elizabeth Hawbaker and saw her e-book Family Menu Planning: A Practical Guide to Mealtime Management. I just downloaded it and I’m loving it so far. Some of the shopping tips I already mentioned here but there is a lot of great info that will help me with my meal planning. The e-book is only $3.99 for the Amazon Kindle version. It is worth it.
Note: You don’t have to actually have a Kindle to read the book. You can download kindle onto your PC or smart phone. I have mine on my iphone and I’m using Amazon Cloud (until Apple gets their cloud!) so I can read it on any computer.

Over the past month or two I’ve been slowly working my way through a number of books for Catholic moms. Here are a few.

Small Steps for Catholic Moms
By Danielle Bean and Elizabeth Foss

I am really enjoying this daily devotional book! I admire both the authors very much so I thought I’d give it a try. I’m glad I did because it is perfect for my morning prayer time. Often my mind is filled with thoughts about the day ahead of me and I have trouble quieting down and focusing. This book makes the transition to prayer easier because it is short and concise.

Each month is dedicated to one virtue. (This month is diligence.) Each day is divided into three parts – Think (a scripture or saint quote), Pray (a short prayer) and Act (a resolution or goal to work on that day.) Sometimes I follow the material completely and sometimes I’ll adapt it to my circumstances that day. You can keep your prayer time short or dwell on your conversation with God as long as your time allows. If you don’t already have a prayer routine or if you are just starting out, this is a great place to start.

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Smart Martha’s Catholic Guide for Busy Moms
By Tami Kiser

I’ve seen this book mentioned on a number of blogs and thought I’d read it for myself. The chapters are as follows:

1. The Toys ‘R’ Taking Over Us: Finding Play That Is Purposeful and Manageable
2. The Media Monster: Managing Our Technical “Toys” in this Media Driven Culture
3. Dinner: Getting the Food and Everyone to the Table to Feed Body and Soul
4. It’s Your Home Too: Getting the Chores and Work Done. Hint: “M” Is for Mom, Not Maid. (LOL!)
5. From T-Ball to Trombone: Keeping Track of Everyone’s Comings and Goings
6. Memories…In the Corner of Our Closet: Collecting and Storing Memorabilia
7. The Heart of the Matter: Stirring What Is true, Beautiful, and Good in Our Children
8. Babies: Bringing Out the Mary in Us
I am about ½ way through and I have found it really helpful with my Operation Clean and Organize. The author is a busy of mom of nine kids and if she is able to keep a clean, organized and happy family that loves Our Lord then I certainly want to know some of her secrets! And so far, so good!

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The 10 Habits of Happy Mothers: Reclaiming Our Passion, Purpose, and Sanity
By Meg Meeker

I bought this book a couple months ago and started reading it but frankly, I don’t think I was in the right state of mind because when Dr. Meeker gave examples of moms who were formerly in the corporate world or who were doing outside ministries along with raising their families, it turned me off. I didn’t think the book was for me since I am “just a mom” with little kids trying to make it through the day with the dishes washed, some laundry done and my sanity intact.
However, when I saw that Elizabeth Floss was gong to do an online book study of this book, I thought I’d give it another try. I’m so glad I did because now it is clicking and making sense to me. This book is just as beneficial to a mom “like me.” I have been reading along, but at a slower pace than the book discussion, and I’ve found myself rereading sections and thinking over the material so I can better apply them to my life.
I haven’t posted about what I’ve read, except for the first chapter on Habit 1. Hopefully I’ll be able to post more later. (By the way, this book can be for any mom, not just a Catholic one.)

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The Handbook for Catholic Moms: Nurturing Your Heart, Mind, Body, and Soul
By Lisa M. Hendey

I’ve only skimmed through this because I wanted to get through the other ones first but it looks really good! It’s next on my list. I’ll post about it when I start it but you may want to check it out now.

This post was made years back but it is just as heart felt today.

When I was younger I used to always wonder why people would ask “Where were you when Kennedy died?” I didn’t get what the big deal was. Now when someone asks me “Where were you on 9/11?” I understand perfectly what they were talking about. On 9/11 I was no where near NY. I was living in Pacific Grove, CA with Brian. I was almost 8 months pregnant with Bella. I woke up to kiss Brian goodbye for work and he told me I had better check the news because he saw online that there was news of a terrorist attack.
When I turned on the TV, I first thought a single terrorist flew his own plane into the Twin Towers. Then a realized a regular commercial flight with innocent people on board were made into human bombs. And not just one flight – many of them. I kept thinking that the Twin Tower workers probably never saw it coming but the people on the plane were aware and watching it unfold. I was dumbstruck until all I could do was sob. (Even now its hard to hold back the tears when I think about it.) I don’t think I ever got off the couch that day as I watched and cried. Brian came home and eventually made me turn off the TV so I’d stop thinking about it.
I remember at one point someone told me that it was a shame that I was bringing a baby into a world such as this. For a moment I thought she was right but as I came to my senses I thought – no! This child of mine is a sign of hope! It is a breathe of joy and peace in the midst of evil and darkness.
Two weeks later Bella was born a month premature. (I always wondered if my stress at that time had something to do with it.) Weighing only 3lb, 12 oz she was tiny but had a feisty, fighting spirit and came out fine. My beautiful little Isabella Rose Marie. She was my proof that no matter how troubling things may look or how small and insignificant we may feel, with God, you can find a purpose, a means, and always hope.

Catholic Mom.com had a great post today from Aquinas & More Catholic Goods. It’s worth reposting here:

Can You Help Catholics in the Military?

We opened our store in the aftermath of 9/11. We opened our store in Colorado Springs, a city with four military bases and the Air Force Academy.
When we opened our store we heard from one of the local chaplains who was being deployed to an “undisclosed location” that it was almost impossible to get requisitions for Catholic devotionals for the troops he was serving.
Because of that, we decided to start Catholic Chaplain registries and to upgrade all orders to military addresses to Priority Mail at no extra charge.
A plaque we were sent from thankful troops in Afghanistan.Since we launched our registry program, we have shipped over 6000 Bibles, medals and prayer books to chaplains serving in some of the most dangerous places on Earth including Baghdad and Afghanistan.
Unfortunately, the generosity that people had when the wars first started has waned along with support for the wars themselves. This means that our Catholic soldiers who are still fighting and dying, whatever you may think of the cause, are frequently short on things that can strengthen their Faith.
As an example of how difficult it is to get supplies through the military, we had a chaplain order sacramental wine from our store to be shipped overseas because he was worried that he would be reassigned before the wine arrived at his current station if he went through military requisitions!
Over the past two weeks I have received three requests for more items for our soldiers.
First, we heard from Chaplain Sheehan:
“I am the only Catholic Navy Chaplain at Parris Island SC (US Marine Corps Boot Camp). I serve the recruits in a number of ways to include teaching Religious Education, preparing recruits to receive Sacraments of Initiation, and praying The Mass on Sundays.
I am a Battalion Chaplain and have daily encounters with the recruits in training, teaching, and counseling.
There is a consistent requests for Catholic Bibles and crosses (crucifix’). I get many request for protestant Bibles and Rosaries but have generous suppliers for these items.
Catholic Bibles, Crucifix’s, and Crosses are harder to get donated.
Thank you for your generosity and possible assistance in securing these items for US Marine recruits. Thank you to your generous customers who support this ministry.”
Second, we have Chaplain Victor. Chaplain Victor was one of the first chaplains we assisted and we have sent Catholic devotionals to his troops in Afghanistan and Japan:
“I am Fr. Victor and while I was deployed in Afghanistan in January 2005 – January 2006, you have supported me with books, especially the Fulton Sheen’s Wartime Prayerbook. I want to know if you can donate more as there is a great demand for this book.”
Third, we have Catholics in the Military. This organization just changed its name to Mission Capodanno. They promote vocations to the Chaplain Corp, send Catholic items to troops in need and provide spiritual assistance to military families. We have been supplying material to them for years and they are currently in short supply.
There are several other chaplains who have requested our assistance through the years and your generosity has made those requests bear fruit.
Can you still find it in your heart to give? These soldiers don’t get paid much and are frequently in some of the worst places on Earth supported by an understaffed and undersupplied Chaplain Corp.
You can view all of the items that chaplains have requested at: http://www.aquinasandmore.com/militarychaplain

How can you deny a soldier looking for Catholic materials?? We’ve got to help! I am supposed to work on the monthly finances tonight and after I do I will see how much tithing money I have for this month. Then I’ll choose one of chaplains listed on their site and purchase some of the materials they need. There are items for any budget – from holy cards less than $1 to $5 books to $7 bible and much more. Perhaps you and your family could creatively raise a few extra dollars to purchase something for the chaplains. I know money is tight but even one bible or rosary or prayer book in the hands of a soldier could make a tremendous difference as they face danger day in and day out. Spread the word and pray for our troops!

Now that August is here I’ve been reading on the blogs about many homeschooling moms starting school or getting ready to start. A couple people have been asking about the Little Saints Catholic Preschool Program.

Although we aren’t homeschooling (at least not at the moment) I have used the Little Saints program for the kids while they were younger. The lesson plan can be used for a classroom setting or for homeschooling.

Personally, I loved it. I also liked that it had everything written out – including all the materials I’d need for the projects and lessons. Since I was using it informally, there were sections I skipped and others that I implemented. I thought the program was worth having just for all the project ideas, book suggestions and learning material that I adapted to my own schedule.

Last year, some of the local homeschooling moms did a once a week co-op for their homeschooling children. One mom tutored the older kids in English. Another mom taught the preschoolers, including Andrew, while I watched the babies. Although it wasn’t a formal preschool setting she used a number of the ideas and projects from the program.

Here is a partial sample chapter so you can see how it is organized. (This is for reference only. The pages have a copyright.) You can learn more and purchase the Little Saint’s Catholic Program at CatholicPreschool.com.