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How We Celebrate Dia de los Muertos, All Saints’ Day, and All Souls’ Day as a Catholic Family

 

Dia de los Muertos

Dia de los Muertos (“Day of the Dead”) is a Mexican holiday celebrating life and death, specifically remembering loved ones who have died. Traditionally, it is a two-day holiday that believes we are reunited with our loved ones. Families build altars called ofrendas (“offerings”) with photos of their beloved deceased and decorate it with yellow marigolds, and their favorite foods to encourage them to visit from the land of the dead.

The origins of Dia de los Muertos is non-Christian and we, as Catholics, don’t believe the souls of our loved ones will “visit” us on these two days (as portrayed in the popular movie Coco.) However, we do believe that our loved ones remain alive in Christ (John 11:25) and we can (and should) pray for them. In the Catholic Church, our celebration of life after death is especially evident during All Saints’ Day on November 1 and All Souls’ Day on November 2. These feast days emphasize the Communion of Saints and the fact that we are still connected to those who died before us.

Dia de los Muertos is celebrated during these feast days and the traditions of praying for the dead, visiting and cleaning graves, making commemorative altars, enjoying a special meal to celebrate their lives are all meaningful acts that unite our hearts to theirs.

Although I’m Hispanic, I’ve never celebrated Dia de los Muertos. My first real glimpse into the holiday was during the aforementioned movie Coco. We were visiting my parents at the time, and the kids and I accompanied them to watch the movie. I loved it! A year and a half later, my mom passed away from cancer and the desire to honor her life inspired me to incorporate Dia de los Muertos with our Catholic feast days.

We started by building a Catholic version of the ofrenda, emphasizing praying for the dead.

 

RevolutionofLove.com - bis_altar_1First I cleared off our normal prayer table and switch the icon from the Sacred Heart to Divine Mercy.

Then I found boxes to serve as tiers for our altar.

I covered the boxes and the table with a yellow table cloth and some Mexican style table runners and place mats that I bought at Target a couple years ago. I also found similar ones in a local Mexican market. We added items such as:  Photos of deceased family members, papel picado (colorful paper flags), yellow marigolds, and (battery operated) votive candles.

There’s also a crucifix, icon of Our Lady of Sorrows, holy card of St. Joseph (patron of a happy death.)

I used PicMonkey to create the pictured prayer for the dead. (PicMonkey has a “day of the dead” theme with appropriate graphics.) I placed the prayer in a 5×7 picture frame.

I saved the photo as a PDF and put it in my Google Drive if you’d like to print it out and use it for your prayer table.

 

We placed another frame on the altar that has the names of family members and friends who have died.

Together these are a reminder that our loved ones are gone, but not forgotten. Our prayers and love for them remains strong.

If you don’t want to make a big ofrenda, you can do a smaller version with the a few photos, a candle, and the prayer card on a shelf. A couple years ago, before we created an ofrenda, I made this print (using PicMonkey) to display the photos of relatives who have recently died, along with the Faithful Departed prayer. We placed the photo on our little prayer table in the family room (next to where we eat) and we recite the prayer when we say grace before eating dinner.

 

All Souls Day Prayer & Family Photos

I downloaded the photo to Google Drive. You could download the photo template and use PicMonkey to make your own version, like I did, or you can simply print out a copy and write in the name of your loved ones or even tape their photo(s) to it.

 

All Saints Day

 

On the feast of All Saints Day, we celebrate the saints of the church, both known and unknown, who have reached heaven.

When the kids were younger, they’d dress up as their favorite saints and attend All Saints’ Day parties.

Now that they are older, they don’t dress up, but we attend Mass together as a family and during our evening prayers, we pray the Litany of the Saints.

The kids may be too old for costumes, but they’re never to old for special treats! The cute tableware and the paper decorations are from Be A Heart.com.

All Souls’ Day

The Communion of Saints is comprised of three group: The Church Triumphant, the faithful who have died and are now in heaven. The Church Militant, those of us on earth still on our journey to Heaven. And the Church Penitent, the faithful departed who are still expiating their sins in Purgatory. All Souls Day is dedicated to this, often forgotten, portion of God’s family.

“All who die in God’s grace and friendship, but still imperfectly purified, are indeed assured of their eternal salvation; but after death they undergo purification, so as to achieve the holiness necessary to enter the joy of heaven. (Catechism of the Catholic Church, 1030)”

The Church encourages and gives us ample opportunity to pray for the dead in the month of November. Our prayers, Masses, indulgences, sacrifices, and works of mercy are our way of loving and helping the Faithful Departed.

On All Souls’ Day, we visit our local cemetery, where my father-in-law is buried. We clean his grave and add fresh flowers. It’s interesting to see other graves and how families have decorated them with flowers and items that they loved.

I give each of the kids a handful of flowers and allow them to walk around the cemetery and choose people who don’t have any flowers or decorations.

They offer a prayer for them and leave a flower at their grave.

Their choices have included older persons, young kids, soldiers, priests and religious, and a teen who recently took his life. One of the people I prayed for was a woman with the same name as my mom since her grave was too far away for me to visit. It was a moving experience.

Together Dia De Los Muertos, All Saints’ Day, and All Souls’ Day remind us that this life is a journey towards Heaven and death cannot separate us from the love we share with each other. The grief of loss is tempered with the knowledge that, God willing, we will all be together again one day.

How do you celebrate these feast days? I’d love to hear your traditions. 🙂

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Saint Costume Ideas for All Saints Day

The 31 Day of Writing Challenge continues. It’s Day 26 of my 31 Days of Gratitude 2015.

I’m grateful for the family of saints in heaven ready and waiting to pray for us and intercede for us!

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During this time of year, this post about saint costumes gets a lot of hits. Some of the links were broken so I cleaned it up and am reposting it here. I originally received this list years ago from a homeschooling mom. I thought I’d share the ideas with you. 🙂

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MARY, MOTHER OF GOD

Blessed Mother – Wear a white dress and a blue shawl over head and shoulders.

Our Lady of Guadalupe – She appeared looking like an Aztec princess. Wear a white flowery dress, a black sash(sign of pregnancy) & a blue veil with stars on it. She could carry the miraculous roses.

APOSTLES/FRIARS/MONK

RevolutionofLove.com - Saint Costume Ideasajm_10_31_07Here is little Andrew as St. Francis. We used his big sister’s brown hoodie shirt with hearts and put it on him inside out. We used string for the cord and added a rosary and sandles.

For any saint that was an apostle or a friar or monk, get a man’s T-shirt, put a rope around the waist, maybe sandals, and there is your costume! Or buy brown, gray, or black material, cut a hole in the top & tie a rope or strip of material around the waist. Use face paint for a beard.

St. Peter – He could have keys hanging at his waist. (Because Jesus gave him the keys to heaven, Mt. 16:19) He could also have a net.

St. Francis – You can cut out a bird and pin it on his shoulder, or bring some stuffed animals.

St.’s Matthew, Mark, Luke, or John – For one of the gospel writers you can bring a bible.

St. Constantine and St. Benedict and St. Anthony the Abbot (from Egypt) were monks (a rosary in belt).

Great St. Joseph, foster father of Jesus. He was a carpenter by trade, so have him carry a tool or hang on his belt.

St. John the Baptist – Wear fake fur or leather & sandals. Perhaps tie a strip of cloth around the forehead. Could carry a shell for baptizing or some locusts (grasshoppers) & honey.(This is what he ate.)

KING/QUEEN/PRINCESS

RevolutionofLove.com - Saint Costume Ideasbrm_10_31_aSt. Isabella

For any saint that was a king or queen, you can buy a crown for a boy, or a princess outfit for a girl. Crowns can be bought online at Oriental Trading Company, or a local craft/toy store. Princess outfits are everywhere!

ROYALTY – GIRLS:

St. Queen Elizabeth of Hungary – She can carry a basket of bread or flowers. She took bread to the poor. She built a hospital and cared for the sick.

St. Margaret – Queen of Scotland, would actually have Scottish plaid clothing.

St. Bathildis – Queen of France

St. Adelaide – Queen of Germany and Italy

Queen Ester – Old Testament

St. Helena – Married Constantius Chlorus, co-regent of the western Roman empire. At the age of 80 she led a group to the Holy Land to search for the True Cross. (326AD) She built a church on the spot where the cross was found, the feast of the Holy Cross on Sept.14 celebrates the event.

St.Helena – First Christian queen of Ukraine (relics found to be incorrupt)- lived 879-969

St.Yolanda – Princess. Daughter of Bela IV King of Hungary (13th century)

ROYALTY – BOYS:

King Casimir of Poland – 15th century, add a lily.

Good King Wenceslas of Bohemia – He could also wear armor along with his crown.

King Solomon and King David – Old Testament

King Louis IX of France (13th century was crowned at age 12.) Representation: crown of thorns; king holding a cross or crown of thorns; nails.

Henry II (Good King Henry)-king of Pavia in year 1004. He was crowned Holy Roman Emperor in 1014 by Pope Benedict VIII; he was the last of the Saxon dynasty of emperors.

Humbert III- Count of Savoy from age 13. Eventually assumed a Cistercian habit. (12th century)

INDIAN

For Blessed Kateri Tekakwitha (Lily of the Mohawks), a little girl can dress as an Indian. Maybe add a cross around her neck, carrying a lily or cross.

KNIGHT/ARMOR

For St. Joan of Arc, St. George and the Dragon, St. Gengulphus, or St. Michael the Archangel, they can wear plastic “Armor of God” from Catholic Child. For St. Michael you can buy *feather wings online at Oriental Trading Company or make some with cardboard with tin foil over them, staple elastic to put them over the shoulders.

SOLDIERS

St.Sebastian was officer of the Imperial Roman army, and captain of the guard.

Acacius was centurion in the imperial Roman army.

Adrian was an officer at the court of Nicomedia.

Martin joined the Roman imperial army at age 15. Encountering a beggar he cut his heavy officer’s cloak in half, and gave it to him. Later he had a vision of Christ wearing the cloak.

Maurice- (3rd century) Officer in a legion of Christian soldiers from Upper Egypt

Theodore- Roman general and covert Christian during a time of persecution

Eustachius- Pagan Roman general in the army of the emperor Trajan. Converted to Christianity following a hunting trip during which he saw a glowing cross between the antlers of a stag.

ANGEL

For an angel costume wear a man’s T-shirt. For wings see above. *Often you can find angel costumes at party stores or in catalogs such as Lillian Vernon. (The archangel Gabriel with a horn. Cherubim or Seraphim carrying instruments)

SPANISH FARMER

St. Isidore the Farmer from Spain, a boy can dress up like a farmer with a hoe, maybe a plastic sand shovel or rake.

NUNS

Buy black material, cut a hole at the top for the neck or use a man’s black T-shirt. Where a white turtleneck underneath, use a square of black material over the head as a veil, and wear a crucifix or cross.

St Brigid of Ireland- often pictured holding a lamp or candle – She began life as a slave & heard St. Patrick preach)

Gertrude the Great-raised in a Cistercian abbey in Germany from the age of 5. Often pictured with a crown or lily.

St. Scholastica- The twin sister of St. Benedict often pictured with a crosier.(like a shepherd’s crook) If your girl is still little she can use a wooden walking cane.

St.Therese of Lisieux, France- (the little flower/ of the child Jesus) A Carmelite at age 15. At age 8, she was healed from an illness when a statue of the Virgin Mary smiled at her. She could hand out roses to people. She promised to shower the earth with roses from heaven. Her habit would be brown.

St.Colette-A Poor Clare from France, that restored the rules of St.Clare. Pictured with a crucifix and a hook. She was named after St. Nicholas.

PRIESTS

St. John Bosco- He wore a black cassock. Perhaps use a large black T-shirt, with a white turtleneck underneath. He entertained boys with slight of hand and juggling etc., and would then repeat the homily he heard at church. He founded the Salesians to work with and educate boys. (We have a relic of him in our altar in the church.)

St. John Mary Vianney (or Cure of Ars)- A known confessor and preacher from France. He’s pictured in white with 2 black strips below his neck and a red stole. Please see his incorrupt body and other images on the web site I list below. It’s amazing!

St Philip Neri: Born in France, founded the Oratorians (like Fr. Peter Sanders) wear a black T-shirt or sweater with a white collared shirt underneath. (make sure the collar sticks out) He wore a 3(?) pointed black hat you could make out of black paper.

MEXICAN INDIAN

Saint Juan Diego saw our Lady of Guadalupe, wore a tilma. Buy rough material such as canvas or burlap and tie it around his neck. Perhaps attach a picture of Our Lady on it.

ASIAN MONK

St. Theophylact- 8th century- He established hospices and was imprisoned the last 35 yrs. of his life.

PRISONER

St. Maximillian Kolbe wearing a blue striped prison uniform and glasses. (A priest that died at Auschwitz during WWII.)

PEASANTS

The little children of Fatima, Portugal, who saw the Blessed Mother, could carry rosaries.

Blessed Francisco (9 yrs. old) He wears trousers, white shirt, cap, and perhaps a jacket.

Blessed Jacinta (7 yrs. old) and Blessed Lucia (10 yrs. old) The girls wore dark skirts, usually with aprons over them, white blouses and veils over their hair.

St. Bernadette of Lourdes, France, who saw Our Lady, would also be dressed the same way.

SHEPHARDESS

Germaine’s right hand was deformed. Once in winter her stepmother, Hortense, accused her of stealing bread, and threatened to beat her with a stick. Germaine opened her apron, and summer flowers tumbled out. Her body was found incorrupt in 1644. (skirt, shawl, head kerchief, crook, carrying a lamb) FRANCE

HOLY MEN & WOMEN

SAINT MARTIN de PORRES was born in Peru, his father was a Spanish Knight and his mother was a black freed-woman from Panama. He was a Dominican brother who helped the sick and poor and is the patron saint of interracial justice. He wore a white robe with black on top, like a T. You can see his and many other saints at the web site below. Seen with a rosary, crucifix, and a dog.

ST. DOMINIC SAVIO: Born in Italy. Died at age 15. He was studying to be a priest. He is the patron saint of boys, altar boys, and choirboys. He was a protégé of St. John Bosco. He is pictured in a white dress shirt, bow tie, vest, and jacket or as an altar boy.

ST.VERONICA: (Who wiped the face of Jesus.) Wear a dress or man’s T-shirt tied at the waist, sandals, and carrying her veil. ( Attach, perhaps with glue, a picture of Jesus.)

ST. HELENA was Caesar’s wife. You can dress up in toga.

ST. GALL was a fisherman from Ireland. Use a fishing pole.

CRAFT IDEAS:

HALO: Use gold pipe cleaners to bend into halos to put on any saint! Or gold, star, bendable wrapping ribbon wire. These are available from craft stores. Party and toy stores sometimes carry halos too.

HOLY CARDS: Buy holy cards of your child’s saint for him/her to pass out to others. The kids can be trading holy cards!

COSTUME TIPS:

A final note, if your kids also dress up for Halloween, you can sometimes double up your outfit so they can wear them on both holidays.

RevolutionofLove.com - Saint Costume Ideassaint_costume_1For example, one year Bella was Dorothy of Wizard of Oz. For her saint costume we switched it up for St. Bernadette and another year for Bl. Jacinta.

RevolutionofLove.com - Saint Costume Ideassaint_costume_2For Andrew, the year he was a cowboy he was also Miguel Pro in one of his “disguises.” It was a bit of a stretch but it still worked.

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For more All Saint Day Costume Ideas (some of them are amazing) visit CatholicAllYear.com. (This post about Star Wars costumes doubling as saint costumes is particularly awesome!)

For All Saint Day costumes and activities visit Catholic Icing.com.

Is there another website with great All Saints Day ideas? If so, add them to the comments. 🙂

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